Change Your Life

Welcome to change your life forever and I hope you like our website. The site is all about personal development and becoming a greater and better you in life. To live everyday with a smile on your face and learn how to be happy in your life moving forward. I have been an executive coach for years of my life in the IT Industry and have had plenty of life experience to know that changing your life is something that you can do at anytime, you just have to want to and for all the right reasons. You see no matter what anyone says to you, you deserve to live the life of your dreams and you deserve to get everything you want in life. In the video series above I was lost in life at one stage and didn’t know how to change my life for the better, until boom. Out of the blue my wife told me she didn’t want me anymore and that she didn’t want me around. So I went from having everything I had ever wanted, to having to rebuild my life again from scratch. When you are in this position you only have 2 choices. Go into a state of depression or fight life with everything you have and become a better person as a result of everything you have gone through. Now I decided to change my life for the better and in the video series above you will see everything I did to see the situation and my life in a positive way and how you can also adopt these principles in your life too. I have and always will use the law of attraction as a principle in my life, because you have to stay positive no matter what you think the outcome maybe. Wanting to change your life is something we all think and feel, but mostly do nothing about. Because we are scared of what the future might hold, we are scared of change, those intrusive thoughts tell us all the wrong things and leave us unhappy in life. Before we know it we are stuck and life just seems to be really hard. But it doesn’t have to be that way. If you have a goal and a plan in life and stay focussed on what you want, then it will happen. You just have to learn the steps it takes in life to become a greater you. To let go of the past and learn to to get over someone as quickly as possible so that you can move on in your life and make it everything that you have ever wanted. You see life is quite simple when you truly understand how to change your life for the better in everyway. So follow some of the principles below that helped me change my life 1. Learn to control your thoughts - Every thing we think and feel is just a thought. We are in control of our own minds and our own thinking. No one makes us feel bad apart from ourselves and our intepratations of situations. When you learn that bad thoughts are just there to protect you, then you can think clearly and brush of any negative thinking and accept that what will be will be. 2. Don’t let others control your life - This is your life and you need to make sure that you live it on your terms and no one elses. Yes sometimes we have to take partners and children into account, but you also need to learn to live for yourself in life too. When you are feeling great about yourself and who you are, what you stand for in life then the rest of life will just fall into place. 3. You deserve to be happy - Never listen to what other people say to you. Everyone deserves to be happy in life. Everyone deserves to have people in their lives that support them through thick and thin, big them up and make them feel amazing. If you haven’t surrounded yourself with like minded people yet then now is the time to get started. 4. Stop making excuses - If you really want to change your life then only you can do it. You can change you just need the motivation and the ability to see that you deserve better in life. You have to do things now and not put them off. If you have done everything you possible can to make changes and they haven’t worked then take control of your life and set out on your path to finding your meaning in life. 5. Follow your dreams and have a plan in life - You should dream and you should dream big. Then put a plan together on how you are going to achieve your dreams and make those changes in life you need. If you want a new car, house, job then look at what you need to do to make it happen and go and do it. There is no point being jealous of others when you too can have anything you want in life. 6. You can have anything you want in life - We live in an extraordinary world today where millionaires are made every minute. Teenagers are becoming Instragram Influencers and earning so much money just by telling their stories in life. We all no excuse to change your lives for the better. We can educate ourselves to be anyone or do anything we want to. All you need to work out is what you want and go out there and get it. 7. Never let people put you down - People can be cruel and some hate seeing the success of others. Surround yourself with like minded people who get where you want to be and help you to get there. For every rude and unhelpful person out there, there are far more that would happily see you succeed in life. Remember sticks and stones may break your bones but names will never hurt you. 8. Be fearless and accept failure - Be critical of yourself and know that you can develop yourself further in life. Accept that life has its ups and downs and if you want to be successful, then you will have more failures at first until you get what you want. Overcome every obstacle with a plan on how to change your life for the better next time. Never give up and stay consistent, come out your corner fighting, this is your life and you deserve this. 9. Enjoy the journey and laugh at yourself - Life should be fun and you should enjoy the journey to achieving your dreams. Learning to laugh in the face of adveristy and laugh at yourself and your disastrous moments will give light to any situation. Go out there and do what makes you happy and put a well deserved smile on your face. 10. Rewards and recognition - Everyone of us wants to feel valued in life and as kids we are rewarded with stars and trophies but as we get older, life becomes a bit more serious. So make sure whatever you decide to do you are adding value to your life and other people’s. Rewards yourself and recognize how hard you have worked to get there. Hang around with people who recognize you too and want to be with you. Get rid of those people who don’t believe that you are amazing and deserve to change your life for the better. Life is to be taken. If you don’t ask you don’t get. If you don’t try then you won’t get what you need. Changing your life is a choice that only you can make. Do it now and live the life of your dreams before you look back with regret of wasting your precious time in life - Scott Adams 2020