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What To Do When You Want To Change Your Life

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Sometimes you just sit down and think damn is life supposed to be this hard, aren’t I supposed to be happy and living a fulfilled life? That is where today’s article on “what to do when you want to change your life” comes from.

It is a question that a lot of people ask and at one stage I asked myself the same question several times. When some life changing events happened however I was forced to find what would help me change my life because it felt like it was over. You can find out more about my story in my 60 Day change your life program.

But let’s get back onto today’s topic of what to do when you want to change your life and put some handy tips for you below to follow.

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My Top Tips On What You Should Do To Change Your Life For The Better

  • Change in your life is always going to be uncomfortable at first but when you recognize that change invokes positive lifestyle changes when done properly it is easier to accept
  • Be in control of your life and change things yourself, don’t wait till the bitter end when change is enforced upon you
  • Create a list of things that you think will add massive value to your life. It doesn’t matter how wild or weird they sound, just write them down for now as a good place to start
  • Go through your list and see if there are any quick wins that you can pull out that will put a smile on your face. For every change that you can do that helps you get to where you want to be is a small step on the ladder to happiness no matter how small it is
  • Dream and dream big about things. Get some quiet time and just dream about what your dream life would be like, big house, loving family, nice car, vacations, hobbies whatever you want it to be
  • Once you have your dream mapped out even if it seems silly start thinking about ways that you can get them. Crazy as it sounds the universe has a way of bringing ideas and things into your life when you concentrate on really wanting them
  • Check out my article on 15 Ways To Change Your Thoughts And Transform Your Life if you want some additional tips for success
  • If you are bored in life get out there and try new things. You will never get anywhere sitting in front of the tele thinking your life away. Life should be an adventure get out there meet people go new places and have fun
  • Watch some of my change your life transformation videos for inspiration on making your life better on a daily basis. You can find them here
  • Talk to your friends and family about your plans and what you are doing. They may say you are daft and you will never achieve them. But if you chase your dreams and you try hard it will be you that is wiping the smile of their face when you get the paradise you are looking for
  • Don’t be scared to look at things to change your life. Sometimes small things like finding a new hobby can bring enormous happiness into your life and when you are in a happy and positive state, everything else seems so much easier too
  • You have to do things now. The longer you think about things the less likely you are to invoke change. As soon as you get a thought in your mind about doing something, put something in the diary straight away to do it. Everything in life likes speed, if you wait too long you will miss the boat on the idea
  • Get up and smile everyday, you are in total control of your own happiness and smiling at other people too really helps to create a lovely atmosphere around you
  • Talk to people as you walk down the street, get on the bus etc. Find out what they do and what excites them, it is amazing how many great people you will meet this way and the interesting things they get up to in life
  • Hang around with other dreamers and action takers. Having people around that encourage you find ways to change your life for the better is the best way to be. If you hang around with the nay sayers they will probably put you off

Now I know all of the above sounds pretty easy right. I learnt the hard way that chasing material things and trying to keep others in life does not make you happy.

What makes you happy inside is finding something rewarding in life, something that makes you smile. When you are happy you will find everyone around you will be happier too – great emotions really do rub off on others.

If you need some help finding other ways to change your life then think about joining my transformation program where I will be with you every day in a series of videos to spur you on to change your life for the better.

Wishing you all the best for the future Scott

How Can I Transform My Life Today

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The question of how can I transform my life has been asked a few times in my own mind over the years and I thought I would put some pointers together on how you can transform your life too. 

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The image above really does represent our choices in life. When our minds are full of a haze and craziness we often need to make choices in transforming our lives for the better and rising above the fog. 

For me my life has changed numerous times in that I have had to leave previous lives behind in order to find the life that I deserve and am happy with. So my tips below are based on the transformation program I put together on changing your life you can find here and I hope they help you too.

My top tips on transforming your life for the better

  • Sometimes we get stuck in life because we accept that what we have is all that we are going to get. Life is okay but it is not really going anywhere and we don’t feel fulfilled. But if you knew by making small changes in your life it would transform really quickly would you be willing to make them? Recognizing that you can do better is the first step up on the ladder
  • Pick something in your life you would like to transform first and foremost. I had been working away eating junk and drinking too much beer when my wife left and decided to leave me. So the first thing on my transformation journey was to get fitter and healthier and I did this in just 5 short months. You can find out more about how I lost 5 stone and feel great from it in this video
  • Once you make one dedicated and small change it is easier to make others too. For instance I vowed that I would never put myself in a position of unhappiness ever again. That I wouldn’t compromise in life and that I would try and help others also to cope with these types of issues. By spreading kindness and love to others has really helped to transform my life into one that is just amazing in every way
  • We can do ourselves harm sometimes by not believing that we are worth more than we are. We spend time and give love to people that truly don’t appreciate it. Time with people that will never be happy because they are a victim to their circumstances. You have to rise above all of this and find your true self again and get back your own happiness. I wrote another article about happiness you can find here
  • You need to transform your life from time to time otherwise it just gets boring and you feel unfulfilled in life. Change is good and also necessary and it can be scary but so are roller coasters and people still go on them
  • Don’t ever be scared to fail, the worse thing that can happen is you make an idiot of yourself and so what. Those people that laugh are not the people you want to be associating yourself with anyway. Only ever surround yourself with like minded people if you truly want to transform your life for the better
  • Make a list of things that you would like to transform. This will allow you to work through it and tick things off, change it, add to it or take stuff away. But this in its own right will make you accountable for at least taking the first few steps you need to transform your life
  • Life is meant to be fun and you are meant to be happy. Don’t let other people steal your happiness. You are the most important person in your life and you need to run it for yourself
  • Try new things and new experiences until you find something that really floats your boat and you enjoy doing over and over again
  • Change your image – image is really important when you look in the mirror and think damn I look amazing today
  • Age is not important what you give to the World is and if you give kindness and love you will receive it back with abundance
  • Don’t transform your life with material things. These will not make you happy they will just delay the feelings that you need to change by distracting you for a while
  • Learn to love yourself again and who you are and what you have to contribute to the World. Find a new tribe and friends on twitter so you are having conversations with like minded people who get you 
  • Set yourself some dates that you want things to transform by. Doing this will allow you stay on track
  • Go all out with a belief mindset that you can achieve anything you want in life. You just have to have the tenacity and balls to grab life for what it is
  • Money is not a definition of happiness. Take this out from your mindset and concentrate on transforming things in life that have a true meaning or value to it then the money will follow
  • Find a job that you enjoy. We spend most of our times in life working so it is important not to be in a job that you hate. Moving jobs often is a good thing and expands your horizons, skills and will stop you getting bored
  • Overcome your boredom by always having a plan of where you want to be in life and where you want to go. This will keep your mind active thinking about all the glorious things you are going to achieve
  • Don’t listen to nay sayers they will only be jealous that they haven’t made the step to transforming their lives either 
  • Rekindle your relationships – often or not transforming small things in your relationships can bring back an abundance of love and fun to things

Yes the above sounds easy when you are trapped in a life that you hate and you just want it to change and quickly. If you leave it however your sadness will just continue and it is not until you try to change things and see the results that you will realize it was all worth it. 

If you are struggling to transform your life think about jumping on my 60 day program where I am with you every step of the way to help. Transforming your life can be done in as little as a second if you just make the conscious decision to change it. 

Wishing you the best of luck in your new ventures Scott

How To Change Your Lifestyle Completely In Quick Steps

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Changing your lifestyle doesn’t mean changing your life it just means realigning it to your own happiness. So let me show you how to change your lifestyle completely in quick steps. 

This is all based on my lifestyle changes that I put in place that you can find in my transformation program here. You just might need a little help with some of these things and I am with you everyday for 60 days to help you transform your life completely and as quickly as possible

My top tips on changing your lifestyle completely

  1. Never be scared to make changes in your life. In order to change your life  you must be willing to push on through. Some things will be easy and some will be hard
  2. Start with your appearance and create a new you. Sometimes we spend years with the same hair cut, the same clothes and maybe it’s time to reinvent yourself. Don’t worry what others think you always look a little weird with an image change but often or not it expresses a  new you
  3. If you are a little overweight then try losing it. It is not as difficult as you may think and I discuss this in more detail on how I lost 5 stone in 3 mths here
  4. Losing weight and getting more energy does you wonders. You feel like a teenager again and I cannot recommend it enough if you want a great start to changing your life
  5. Find something you love to do. Something with a passion that gets you energised to do it at the weekends or evenings. A passion will spur you on with confidence to make other changes in your life
  6. Move house, if you are unhappy where you live, dream of a new destination a new start, new neighbours and the exciting times it might bring to you
  7. Find new friends and be nice to people, it is amazing how many people you can meet just by stopping and saying hi at the bus stop. Knowing more people will bring greater opportunities in your life
  8. Educate yourself, start reading some books on being positive and making changes. Brian Tracy is one of my favourites and has a good article here 
  9. Decorate your house if you don’t want to move. After all coming home to a lovely place should be the one thing you look forward to 
  10. Socialise and go out for dates if your single. Either that or join a dating site online. I met my gorgeous wife online and have never looked back. Yes the journey to find her was a bit ropey but heah I am the happiest man alive now. 
  11. Rekindle your existing relationships and find yourselves again. After all relationships and love is what we are all looking for and loving your partner should be the most important item on your agenda. Find out more her 
  12. Make a conscious decision to smile more and be happy – look at things from a positive perspective rather than the doom and gloom we sometimes always think in our lives
  13. Stop rushing around and take time out to sit down and think about what you really want in life, what would make you happy, what would make you smile. Then work hard to obtain it
  14. Stay consistent in your efforts and when you choose the path to change your lifestyle completely follow it through. No point trying to get there and be put off by others or lack of progress. One thing is certain in life is that if you have a plan and a positive outlook to get what you want the universe will reward you for it
  15. Change your job and find something new. Yes change can be hard to take but if you are not happy jump into a new life and give it your best. Sometimes it is good to do this every couple of years anyway just to keep you on your toes
  16. Look inside yourself and find out who you are – stop talking to idiots who complain all the time and pull you in. Hang around with other friends who want to change too and help them achieve a lifestyle change as well
  17. Watch positive things on the tele rather than things that will just depress or anger you. Television isn’t really real and your life is more important so spend time on changing your lifestyle as you will need lots of time to create and implement plans
  18. Try lots of different things, you don’t have to just jump into one thing and expect your whole lifestyle to change in one day. But it can change drastically by choosing to jump out of bed in the morning and own your life
  19. Record everything you do and the impact the change had on your lifestyle and whether it was worth it or not. Did it or did it not make you happy. Sometimes we think the grass is greener on the other side and it isn’t
  20. Relax and chill, enjoy your day, your life, you were meant to be happy but it is your choice to do something about it. You will feel amazing if your looking good, feeling good, lost a little weight and it really isn’t that hard if you put your mind to it

If you are struggling for the motivation to get started or stay consistent, join my transformation program and I will motivate you everyday through 60 videos to get you started and on your path to greatness in life. 

Good luck with your lifestyle change

Best Wishes Scott

What Can I Do To Change My Life Forever

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Today I was sitting in my conservatory and thought about everyone out there that is thinking what can I do to change my life. So I thought I would give you the answer that helped me change my life and will hopefully help you too. 

What can I do to change my life

You see sometimes in life we are forced to make changes because that is the way our lives were meant to go. Other times we are meant to make changes but find it difficult to do so. 

Most of us are scared of making changes and change is resistant in all of us to some degree, but when you learn to embrace it life takes on a new meaning. 

I talk about this and many more subjects in my 60 day transformation program that you can find here. Life can be difficult and it can be hard but can you imagine how good you would feel if you were in charge of your own life.

That you weren’t scared of making changes if you thought that your life would change for the better as a result of making changes. 

Well let me tell you when you embrace life an adventure then you learn to take all the bad times on the chin because you know that each small step will get you closer to your dreams. 

Let’s talk about how you can change your life starting today with these tips

  1. Change is necessary in all our lives, no matter how big or small we all need to look at how our lives can be improved in little ways.
  2. When we look at our lives and see whether we are happy or not there are normally always little things you can do to improve. The important thing is acting on these before they become a major issue in your life and start to eat you up inside
  3. Change is only scary when it is unplanned. I wrote more examples about this in this article here. When you plan a change however it can be a really motivating experience when that change comes to fruition
  4. No matter how big that change is if you are unhappy you need to change it. Most people make radical changes based on emotions and responses when the time isn’t right. Always take the time to find clarity in your thoughts before making the decision to make a major change. 
  5. Happiness comes in life when you look at changing your life to one that suits your lifestyle. Which means not compromising, so if you are feeling that you are not you in your life, you need to find out who you are and what will inspire you to smile everyday
  6. You have to make a conscious effort to stop complaining about your life and do something about it. So many times we all complain and things never get better, then they build up and build up until we explode
  7. Make a conscious decision to concentrate on the happy things in your life and how you can do more of them. It is easier to be happy and grateful for what you have than to think your whole life is a complete mess
  8. Keep it simple, don’t make drastic changes in your life without weighing up the pro’s and con’s about making the change. Once you reach an informed decision you will feel better about implementing the plan to get there
  9. Keep family and friends close. Discuss your dreams with them, surround yourself with people who care and support your decisions. Get rid of the nay sayers because they are not their dreams they are yours
  10. Know that when you make a conscious effort to change your life that once you start on that path then the jigsaw puzzle will build itself slowly for you from the outside in
  11. Never be scared, facing our fears gives us so much power in life and when we can look at a situation and know we are going to come out on top is such a powerful feeling. You will never look back once you start to make positive changes in every aspect of your life
  12. It is only you that can really do this, no one else can give you the confidence or the determination to move forward. Take a big deep breath in knowing that you are doing the right thing to set yourself free

I know it all sounds easy but it is a step by step approach that you have to take when looking at making major changes to your life.

Additional tips you can use to change your life for the better

  • Treat life like you have to fight for it. If you were backed into a corner and had nowhere to go you would soon come out fighting. Work out what your life is worth and how you can make it great
  • Pluck up the courage and fight the anxiety that is holding you back. If you believe you can do something you will find a way to do it. 
  • You are great no matter what anyone else says. Recognising this will change your life – we are all special and we all have a purpose in life. Find yours and reap the rewards as your life unfolds around you
  • Force a smile throughout your day, spread love and kindness to others, help people. This will take your mind off your problems and the law of reciprocity will kick in and reward you
  • Don’t worry about whether the changes will work out just believe they will and envisage how great life will be once the changes take place
  • Work hard at it and stay consistent and see this as an adventure not a challenge. From this day forward you are going to become great and your life and everything around you will change in response to your positive nature

So everything I have said above is hard to implement but when you get it right life gets good. I have had so many troubled times and continue to have but I have found true love in my life and am grateful for everyday that passes. 

But don’t be the person that looks back on life and regrets it, do something about changing it today and your new life will be just amazing and the one you deserve. 

If you haven’t joined my transformation program yet think about it as I am there everyday through 60 videos to give you the encouragement you need to turn your life around to one that is full of adventure and fun.

Wishing you all the very best in your future

Best wishes Scott

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How Do I Change My Life For The Better

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How do I change my life for the better is a question I ask myself regularly because after everything I have been through in life I have realized that life should be fun and exciting. The only thing holding us back is ourselves and those crazy thoughts that stop us finding happiness in the first place. 

So I am going to try and help you see how I changed my life for the better and hopefully how it can help you change yours too in the tips below. 

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My top tips on changing your life for the better starting today

  • You have to stop the noise in your head and concentrate on one thing at a time. If everything seems to be a problem then you need to just sort each little thing out individually rather than seeing everything as the problem
  • Communication is key with everything. If you are not happy in your relationships, job, life etc. Then you need to talk to the people around you and not sit in silence. Most people will help if they understand where you are coming from, but they don’t have a crystal ball to recognize your unhappiness. Also talking might reveal that what you are unhappy with actually isn’t the problem at all
  • Sometimes you just have to sit down and look at your life and then dream and wish for the things that you want to change. Envision it in front of your eyes. I did an interesting  video on this topic you can find here
  • Change can be fun if you are in control of it. To look at your life and put a plan together and say I am going to change my image – move house – travel around the World and then tick these items off when you do them is rewarding. I wrote an article on not being happy in life you can find here for more details 
  • Sometimes we tell ourselves things over and over and over again until we believe it. Those things might have just been a one occasion thing but the mind is a powerful thing and only does what you consistently tell it too. Watch this video for more information 
  • If you can see the positives in life then you are halfway there. It is hard sometimes to look at negative things in a positive way. But if you look back on past events life is telling you that you either didn’t need it, it wasn’t good enough for you and that it is going to give you better if you stay on track. Read more on positivity here 
  • Live your life without regrets is the best way forward. We are allowed to make mistakes, we are allowed to fail, we are allowed to make changes in our lives, we are allowed to be free, to be ourselves and other peoples opinions do not matter. 
  • Never be too hard on yourself. Sometimes we punish ourselves for no reason, we blame ourselves for things that happen that are outside of our control. Everything apart from the way you think and feel is outside of your control. So be happy in you, make wise decisions, be truthful, honest and kind. Spread love and you will never have a reason to question yourself again in the future. There’s a funny video on spreading love here 
  • Which brings us onto the next topic. Have fun with life, surround yourself with laughter. Happiness is a feeling you are in control off and you may want to change your life but that doesn’t mean you cannot enjoy the ride. Spread your wings put a smile on your face and be nice to everyone you meet
  • Love is a massive contributor to happiness and giving hugs to loved ones and even strangers can fill you with joy and happiness. This is important because when you make changes in your life you want them to be the right ones and you can only think straight when you are happy
  • Thinking about changing your life when you are in a negative frame of mind will only send you down the wrong path. This is because you are paying attention to what you don’t want instead of what you do want. Mastering this one thing can change your life dramatically

I know that everything above sounds simple but changing your attitude can change the way you think about your life. After my 2 wives left me I have had an extreme turn around in life, I have been unlucky in love twice but the positives are that I have three beautiful children that I adore and they adore me. 

I was forced to make changes in my life otherwise I would have just gone down hill. This is the reason why I wrote my change your life forever transformation program that you can find here. Go and sign up and I will help you everyday achieve your goals and change your life because remember you are worth it, you just have to make a conscious effort to start making changes now. 

Wishing you all the best through your journey in life Scott

Can you change your life by changing your attitude

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I am sitting here thinking about life and the question can you change your life by changing your attitude popped into my head.. So I thought I would answer it directly in that absolutely if you change your perspective on the way you see things your life can change dramatically and quickly. 

I also discuss all the ways that you can change your life in my video transformation program you can find by clicking here

You see ultimately everyone wants to live in happiness and have a fulfilled lifestyle right. But sometimes that seems a million miles away when you are feeling sad, unhappy, unfulfilled and trapped in a lifestyle that you think you can deserve better. 

I had to lose everything in my life a few times before I actually realised that it wasn’t really about changing my attitude towards things it was giving my love happiness and attention to the wrong people. So sometimes it isn’t you that is the problem it is your surroundings and once you recognize this it is so much easier to do something about changing your life forever. 

So you can change your life by changing your attitude by following the below tips

  • Spend sometime on your own and find clarity in your own mind about whether or not it is your attitude you need to change. Sometimes all we need is to find something we fall in love with doing and our attitude can dramatically change
  • Stop telling yourself you need to change your attitude and work out what bits you aren’t happy about and put a plan together on how you can change that
  • Don’t blame yourself we can all adapt and change to things and if you recognise you need to change you have already done half the battle
  • Everyone has crazy thoughts sometimes about lots of things and not just their attitude – watch this video to find out more 
  • Write down all the things that bother you about your attitude and workout which one’s you want to change first
  • Is the situation really that bad because anything you tell yourself consistently you will believe
  • The power of the mind really is an amazing thing and you can convince yourself of anything and sometimes all it takes is just a change to your thought patterns in order to change your life
  • How to change your attitude and personality is a really difficult one because quite often or not you don’t need to change. If people are telling you that you do, it is likely that you are unhappy. If you are unhappy then it is not surprising that you are not yourself. Sometimes just finding a new circle of friends that appreciate you as being you can do the trick just as well. 
  • How to change your attitude and behaviour is another different area and can again be about hanging around in the right situations with the right people to encourage you. We often beat ourselves up about things when actually the problem is caused by our environment and not us. Most people are happy and enthusiastic when they are doing things they enjoy and being with people they like being with. So if your circle doesn’t feel like this it might be time to find a new circle. 
  • If you find the need to change your attitude about life in general then it could be for a number of reasons and you might just need a little motivation from someone or your surroundings to encourage you to do better.

Sometimes in life we just have to wake up and make the most of every situation because one day you could look back and go blimey what have I achieved. 

Most people need to be rewarded and recognised for the things they do and if you are not getting this then you don’t have any motivation to change your attitude or your life. The quickest and simplest thing to do is force yourself to do things. 

So if you have been putting of going to the gym – then just go to the gym and once your in a routine of doing it you will enjoy it and won’t look back. But if you don’t do things with a consistent attitude then you will always go straight back to the beginning. 

Life really is what we make it and it can be such a great experience if you realise you are worth just as much as everyone else and deserve happiness in your life too. You just have to keep looking until you find a life you fall in love with then it will make sense. 

Don’t forget to check out my transformation program too there are loads of videos and a daily email to get you pumped up about changing your life forever and moving forward. 

Best wishes Scott

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How Can I Change My Life And Become A Better Person

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If you are thinking “how can i change my life and become a better person” then you are opening up your life to a World full of possibilities.

You see most people think it is everyone else that is the problem but when you can constructively look at your self inside and change your thoughts and feelings to improve your life. Then your life will change dramatically.

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Read my top tips on changing your life for the better below

  • Recognizing that your life can be improved is the first step on the ladder. Often or not we put up with a life of compromise but never truly really become the great person we were meant to be.
  • Often or not we have hopes and dreams but make excuses in obtaining them. This is the hard part to get over if you want to improve your life. Because you will have to make a conscious decision to get out there and start making changes.
  • Changes to your life can be fun, intriguing and as long as you see them as a learning curve when they go wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with trying anything and everything to improve your lifestyle.
  • Being critical in your thinking is paramount. If you treat people with kindness, fun and love then you will never need to look inside yourself when people treat you badly because you will have known you have been the best you can be.
  • Don’t let other people hold you back. Many times people will be unsupportive just because they haven’t got the balls to do some of the things you want to themselves.
  • The main things you want to be looking for when changing your life for the better is your own internal happiness. You must remember that money, fame, fortune will not make you happy unless you are happy in yourself, your family life etc… So concentrate on them first and foremost.
  • Making changes to your life can be something small or it can be something big but ultimately you have to control your own destiny and try and find out what makes you smile and what makes you want to get out of the bed in the morning.
  • When one part of your life makes sense and you are happy you can generally put up with all the other troubles that come flying in. Overlooking all the problems in your life and staying on top of your happy emotions is paramount.
  • When Changing Your Lifestyle For The Better you really want to have a plan in place so you don’t have loads of crazy thoughts running through your mind. This will just make you feel overwhelmed that everything needs to change when in fact a lot of things are normally linked and therefore concentrating on one thing at a time will bring the most success.
  • You can look at making small changes like your appearance, the way you perceive things, the way you interpret things very quickly. If you take time to process your thoughts and deal with everything in a positive manner it is amazing how quickly your life will change. This is due to the law of attraction and wishing for things that you want and not things that you do not want.
  • Happiness comes from within and choosing to make the most of things is the best course of action. Yes it is not easy to have a happy disposition on things all the time but you feel so much better when you let all the stresses of life pass you by. After all nothing is more important than your sanity.
  • I decided to change lots of things in my life because I knew that I was overweight and that dictated a lot of the time how I felt about things. After now losing it all and getting fit I have a new look on life because my body is fit my mind takes care of itself. You can find out more about my weight loss here
  • Your life is the most important thing to you and if you are living a happy life everything around you will start to fit into place. So you need to concentrate on yourself and put yourself first sometimes, do the things that make you happy and then look after everyone else later.

But life can be hard and a struggle and I get that as I have been there myself and when you are down it is really hard to get up and be motivated. But if you are still asking how can I change my life and become a better person then why don’t you check out my change your life transformation program.

It is a set of videos that walk you daily through making small changes that will ultimately when implemented and used daily will change your life for the better. You can find out more about it here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Wishing you all the best in your transformation journey Scott

I Don’t Know What To Do With My Life

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I asked myself the question “I don’t know what to do with my life” on several occasions now and came to the same conclusion – Life Is What You Make It – You just need to find out what you have to offer the World and then work out a plan of how to get there.

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You see finding out what you want to do in life is down to a couple of things – happiness and rewards. When you find something that you really enjoy doing in life and it gives you a passion then happiness follows.

Once you are in a state of happiness then life takes on a whole new meaning and opens up lots of doors for you. My life has changed a few times now which opened up the question of I don’t know what to do with my life because everything just fell apart.

You can read more about my story and how it can help you live a better life in my change your life transformation program you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Alternatively if you are not sure what to do with your life follow some of my tips below for some inspiration

My top tips on finding what you should or could do with your life

  • You need to find out what motivates you. Being motivated about a particular thing can drive you to success. For me after losing 5 stone I love keeping fit and that can involve lots of different activities
  • Find out what really makes you smile – smiling is one of the most positive emotions you can have and if you are walking around with your head pointed down to the floor. You need to find something to lift it up
  • What is important to you – money, love, health, hobbies? Once you determine which of these aspects would add the most value to your life it is time to put a plan together on how you can achieve it
  • Most people are lost in life and don’t know what to do with their lives because boredom sets in. We sit in front of the TV and watch rubbish when we could be out making adventures, starting new passions and hobbies. Once you become motivated about a particular area of your life it can change the way feel dramatically
  • Do more of what makes you happy and less of what doesn’t make you happy. I wrote an article on I want do do something with my life you can find here too
  • Try lots of different things, we don’t all want to be a Doctor or Lawyer so try different jobs and see which one’s really float your boat then get qualifications in that area if you find that you love doing it
  • Spend time with family and friends having a laugh and discussing your future and theirs. A lot of people nowadays have lost the art of communication and it feels like you are on your own. If your family and friends don’t help then join a tribe of people on Twitter or Facebook that are doing similar things
  • Don’t waste time just force yourself to make changes. If you don’t know what to do with your life then the last thing you want to do is just there and become unhappy about it
  • Go places meet different people and just have an adventure and some fun. Not everything has to cost money so don’t make that your excuse along the way

I do know that the above all sounds very easy when you are unhappy in life but the only person that can change things is you. No one is going to give you a magic pill or hand you a million pounds.

Plus when you see life as a challenge things become exciting because you have something to look forward to all the time.

If you need a little help along the way then join my transformation program where I will help you everyday with a series of videos to improve your life and your lifestyle and you can start straight away.

So I wish you all the very best in your future search for finding happiness in your life best wishes Scott

How To Make The Most Out Of Everyday

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It’s hard sometimes to stay in a good mood isn’t it? There are so many influences everyday that can make you just want to curl up in a ball and pull the covers over your head.

But how do you learn to deal with all the things that could potentially put you off having a good day? How do you make sure that no matter what happens throughout the day you can keep smiling? I did a really interesting video you can find here on the topic too. But in the meantime below is my list of everything you can do to make sure your day is full of cheer.

  • Communicating with people is paramount in your relationships with your partner, friends and children. If they are annoying you the best thing you can do is work out what is wrong and fix it as soon as possible. You can read more about that here.
  • Happiness really is a choice and you can choose whether to let things get you down or whether to rise above it and just keep smiling through it. I did a really good video on why you should smile at others you can find here.
  • Don’t let things get you down. It is easy sometimes to become annoyed with things that happen but when you just overlook them and think damn I am not going to let this spoil my day then things do become easier.
  • Just because someone is in a mood now doesn’t meant that they will be later in the day. You never know what is going on in other people’s minds so give them some space until they come around in their own time.
  • Find a hobby or something you really enjoy doing everyday and you can always look forward to the time you spend doing that.
  • Give yourself some space and time too. Our lives can be so busy nowadays that quite often or not we don’t get any peace and quiet to ourselves. So take sometime out just to unwind.
  • Always think that everyday is going to get better than it is today. That is if you are having a really bad. I was so frustrated the other day it was unbearable and I just had to take off on my bike before I started arguing with everyone for no reason. Sometimes our own frustration just needs dispersing in some way or an other.
  • Learn to give others a little space when they get in from work or arrive home. Sometimes there is nothing worse than arriving home and everyone is jumping all over you when you just need 5 minutes to settle in before you put that smile on your face again.
  • Smiling really is a great emotion and if you are finding that you are in a bad finding somethin fun to do can lift your mood. I love playing with my kids for the simple reason that you can see how much energy they have for life for absolutely no reason what so ever.
  • I always like having a really good morning routine. It tends to put me in a good mood for the day. I did a video here you can watch on setting your good morning routine too.
  • Look around you and see everything with open eyes. When you have the time to enjoy your surroundings and life itself then you can see the beauty that surrounds you. If you aren’t anywhere you can appreciate it this then take a walk into the country and enjoy it there.
  • Phone a friend that cheers you up no end and just have a laugh and a catch up with them. Half the time now we rely on social media or texts or but there is nothing better than a real laugh with your friends.
  • Organize a night out at short notice and go for a well deserved beer or wine with your friends.
  • Put some music on and just have a dance around and act like a goon for a while until you put a smile on your face.

It really really can be difficult to stay happy at times I know that I have been there myself. But now I just take the view that I am lucky to be here and enjoying life and just make the most of it.

When you become bullet proof to other people’s moods and the things that annoy you then you can just take life in your stride.

If you would like some help in enjoying a better lifestyle and overcoming the bridges of unhappiness then join me on my 60 day transformation journey where I will help you get there. You can find out more about it here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Hope you have a happy and smiley day. Best wishes Scott

Learning To Be Happy With Yourself

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My thought for the day today was about learning to be happy with yourself. We can all achieve happiness in life, we just have to follow a few steps to make sure that our lives are full of love and kindness in order to get there. 

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If you follow this blog you will know that I went through my own transformation in turning my life around into a happy one and I also put a transformation program together so you can change your life too. 

It is a 60 day program that helps you connect your body to your thoughts in order to find happiness in life moving forward. So if you haven’t checked it out yet give it a whirl I am sure you will enjoy it. 

In the meantime however here are my top tips on turning your life into a happy one

My Top Tips To Live A Happy Lifestyle

  • In order to find any sort of happiness in life we have to first understand the way our mind works. In that everything we tell the subconscious mind it stores and pulls that information back when you need it next. So if you tell yourself you are not happy everyday then your mind will believe it. Therefore the next time you try and tell yourself you are happy your mind tells you that you are not because you are consistently telling it you are not happy. Once you understand that feeding your mind with healthy and positive thoughts is the way to go then your life will change forever. I did a video about this subject you can find here
  • Sometimes we just need clarity in our thoughts, trying to get through everyday life can be a struggle when your mind is full of sorts of garbage. Just like taking the rubbish out to be emptied every week is just like dumping the garbage in your mind too. Empty it and clearly think about everything in your life from a relaxed point of view
  • Learning to be happy with yourself means that you should not listen to what others say about you. Their opinion of you doesn’t matter because they probably don’t know you well enough in the first place to come to this decision. It is hard to brush off people’s comments but if you take them constructively and don’t get hurt you can sometimes use this feedback to become a better you. I did another interesting video on this topic you can find by clicking here
  • Being happy is a lifestyle choice, we can all feel down and we can all feel sorry for ourselves as that is a completely natural state of mind to be in sometimes. But it is only us that can bring ourselves back to the position of seeing life as what it is. Our lives should be one filled with love and kindness, laughter and sharing our thoughts with those we respect and can guide us
  • Never settle for second best. If someone in your life is not supporting you or nurturing you to become a better you then get rid of them. It doesn’t matter how close they are this type of parasitic behaviour will just keep you in the dark for longer
  • Believe that life can be better – look at it and see what brings happiness to your life and do more of it
  • Stop making excuses and just get out there and try new things, meet new people, try new hobbies, do anything that keeps your mind active and you have something to look forward to
  • Look at yourself in the mirror and smile. We are all special in our own way and no one should take this away from us. Once you find your special gift in life then you keep doing it and doing it until your thoughts are always on happy things
  • Retraining your mind in the way you think about things is paramount. Our education has a lot to do with the way we think from the way we are schooled to the way our friends and family bring us up. I did another interesting video you can find by following this link
  • Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and personality makes a person look amazing in every way. So make your personality shine above all others and let people see the true beauty in you
  • Try and stay positive where you can and look back at the past as a learning curve. We all do things wrong in life, we are all wronged in life at times but your past should not dictate your happiness for the future. I wrote an article on how to be happy again here
  • Sometimes we just have to pluck up the guts and courage to get out there and change our lives. If we really want to learn how to be happy the first step is trying otherwise you will just sit there complaining you hate life
  • We live in an amazing connected World nowadays, find your tribe and likes on Twitter and surround yourself with people who think like you do. Quite often we surround ourselves with people with different viewpoints and different aspects in life. This is wrong we need to talk about our interests, our goals, our passions with like minded people. Once you do this your conversations and happiness will flow and it will add massive value to your life

I know it easy to say all of the above, but your journey needs to start now. Putting things off will just take happiness further away from you. My program is meant to be fun and I take this walk with you because I understand how difficult it is learning to be happy in life again. 

You are not alone though and like I said above when you realize there are others out there, that think like you, want to be with you and share your thoughts and visions. Then life takes on a whole new meaning. 

So if you haven’t joined the program yet give it a shot and make a promise to yourself that you will learn to be happy again. 

Wishing you all the very best in your future Scott

Why You Have To Listen To Other Peoples Feelings

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How much do you listen to other people? In today’s society it is easy not to listen to people because of the distractions that occur on a daily basis. Phones pinging, Watsapp dinging, facebook messenger ringing you name it there are so many distractions it makes it hard to concentrate.

By listening to others though and using the art of communication it is amazing what you can find out, not only about yourself but about others too.

A good example of this is mental health. It is an embarrassing subject for a lot of people and takes an enormous amount of courage to get things of your chest. However over the years I have been working with people talking about these thoughts and feelings you will find that so many other people feel exactly the same way.

I wrote a really good article on controlling your thoughts will change your destiny you can find here. It is insightful in the fact and linked to this subject by helping to control your thoughts by listening to others.

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As another example I had a lovely lady working for me who phoned me so upset she was in tears. Someone on a conference call had really upset her and she didn’t know what to do. She thought she was doing a really bad job and took everything this lady said to heart.

After talking to her about it at length I asked her whether she had asked this lady why she had acted in the way she did? Of course she said no as no one really likes confrontation. When done in the right way however confrontation can be used as a learning tool.

So I advised her to call this lady and say that she had taken the information she had given personally and that she wanted to fix things before they got out of hand. To her surprise the lady said that she had been suffering from really bad back pain and was in absolute agony and she didn’t realize her behaviour.

She profusely apologized and the two of them now had a relationship that bloomed through honesty and collaboration. You see unless we openly communicate with people and listen to them we have no idea what is the cause of the problem.

The same rings through for children. My daughter who I absolutely adore us currently 6 years old. Occasionally she will have an outburst in the car and just start shouting at me for absolutely no reason. Now I could do the normal thing and shout back at her which would probably just make her even more angry.

Or I could ask her some questions. How are you feeling? Do you feel frustrated? What is making you feel like this? Do you feel sad? What we can we do to make you feel better? Would you like me to be quiet for a bit?

By listening to their answers you will be surprised at what they come out with. Generally they are just frustrated, excited and full of emotions that they just cannot control. The thing is if you take all this personally it is you that is taking this to heart when actually they are just venting and will stop shortly.

I normally wait a while and then tickle her leg and smile at her and then she usually starts laughing and we can start again. Then she is more open to telling me about how she is feeling emotionally.

By listening this makes things so much easier to help others and understand their behaviour. Sometimes we just have outburst, we all have them but the instant reaction is to just shout back but as you have probably realized this just does not work.

If you want to know more about getting your kids to respect you I did a really good video here you can check out.

Listening sometimes will also point out your own flaws too. In relationships it is so important to listen to each other and your feelings. After all we all want to be happy and to be loved but how can we achieve this if we do not know how the person is feeling?

I always ask my fiancé to tell me what is on her mind because I have realized that in every situation that we are in that she will see a different side of things than I do.

I could say something that I have no clue would upset her or make her mind go off on a journey and question herself as to the answer. We all have a tendency to jump to conclusions and make our own view points. This however can only ever be balanced or resolved when you both understand exactly what was meant in the conversation.

Listening is interesting, hearing about how people feel helps you to understand your feelings too. People will tell you all sorts if you engage them in conversation.

I have met so many people on my journey through life that have helped me dramatically improve my life through opportunities that they have offered me. I did an important video on looking for opportunities you can find here.

When my last wife left me out of the blue although I couldn’t change her thoughts or feelings I still listened to her. I still asked her what I could do to improve myself so I didn’t do the same things again and make the same mistakes next time either.

By listening to her I found about myself which I was extremely grateful for and I have carried this over to my new relationship and it really has allowed me to make sure that I cherish every moment I have with my new fiancé.

Self criticism is a really important thing to learn in life. None of us are perfect and we all make mistakes. But if you can take feedback about your behaviour you will be setup for life because you will be able to control situations and relationships much better in the future.

Just listening and learning and not judging others will open your eyes to a completely new world. I did a video n being nice to others and the power of conversation you can find here.

If you would like to improve your life in everyway and live a life of happiness then feel free to join my transformation program where you will get daily videos on improving your life and how I improved mine. You can find out more here. https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

All the best in lifes journey Scott

5 Things You Would Like To Change About Your Life – What Are They

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Today’s topic is all about “5 things you would like to change about your life – What are They? I am only interested because when my life fell apart it was really important for me to concentrate on the 5 things you see below that changed my life dramatically and you can tell me what 5 things would change your life too.

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The 5 Things I Used To Change My Life

  • I swore to never give my time to those people that didn’t give anything back
  • I swore to never let my past have an impact on my future
  • I swore I would never ever be overweight again and chose fitness to be a lifestyle choice I will never go back on
  • I swore to be happy everyday and not let anyone bring me down
  • I swore to love my partner and my children and put them first each and every time they needed me

Now those 5 things might not seem much to you but let me explain why I chose these in the first place and what impact it had on my life.

You see one day my life fell apart my job was in jeopardy and as a result my wife couldn’t take the pressure and decided she didn’t see me as the man I once was.

Now when you have 2 massive life changing experiences happen at the same time you have 2 choices – go down with the ship and live a life of depression and anxiety or you rise from the rafters and never put yourself in that position ever ever again.

Sometimes you never know people or what they are really thinking in life. People interpret situations and conversations in an entirely different way than you think they have taken them.

Everyone is allowed in this World to make choices and decisions that impact their life and to live a life they justly deserve. Once you grasp the concept that sometimes you can be wrong, you can improve, you do make mistakes and see them as something you can use to improve your life then your life itself will change.

So I decided to cut everyone out of my life that said anything negative about my ex wife or couldn’t see her side of the story. Many people where riddled with anger due to the circumstances but I didn’t feel that she deserved it. I also cut out anyone from my life that wasn’t there for me in a positive way either. This was great at really sifting through the useless parasites in my life that added no value at all and giving me time to concentrate and spend time with those that did matter.

I told myself that I wouldn’t let this situation or my other previous divorce dictate how I would feel in the future either. I became determined to only give my time to my true love this time. No compromises nothing, they had to be absolutely perfect in every way and adore me for my kindness and generosity.

It is sometimes easy for us to get caught up in life get whisked away with the feelings of love and finally get married. But I knew those 2 times it just wasn’t going to be right and I shouldn’t have gone ahead with getting married. But I now have 3 amazing and beautiful children I adore and they are the best thing ever so I don’t regret anything whatsoever.

By the way I put together a transformation program for you guys too on how I went from being anxious and overweight to absolutely loving life by changing my habits and my priorities. You should really check it out if you need help changing your life too. You can find it here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

The next thing I did was lose the weight I had put on through working away and eating too many meals and too much beer. You can find out more about me losing 5 stone here It was actually pretty easy to achieve as all I did was walk for an hour a day up the hills and ate fish or chicken with salad or vegetables and ketosis kicked in and the weight dropped off me.

I now actually train 3 times a day to keep myself occupied and busy but being fit and eating home cooked foods and cutting out the beer has changed my life dramatically. It is great to have so much energy and be able to play with the kids all day long.

If you look after your body your mind will also look after itself too. So if you are suffering from anxiety or depression fitness really is the way to go. The reason most people don’t like it or fail is because they think you have to beast yourself in the gym and that is not true.

Exercise is about burning calories and all you have to do is get on a treadmill put the incline on full and walk as fast as you can for half an hour a day. This will burn around 500 to 600 calories but you will continue to burn more afterwards. This is more than enough to kick start your metabolism and if you eat healthy the weight will drop off.

I also swore to be happy everyday because I realized that I am very lucky to have everything i have, although sometimes it can be hard to be grateful. But when you realize that life is for living and you are fit, you look forward to doing things, you are happy to make changes to your life, you can brush off things that annoy you and smiling really is the best thing for you and everyone around you. I did a video about how smiling at others can make you happy here

I swore to always put my partner first and family. You see I am very lucky in that I asked the Universe for a perfect partner after I was fed up of being on my own and that is what I got. The most beautiful and amazing lady that cherishes every minute she spends with me. Her love makes me want to buy her flowers, be a true gentleman, write her love letters, tell her shes beautiful because she puts as much effort into the relationship as I do.

I put my kids on the back burner for holidays to save up for new stables for my ex and other things. When it wasn’t ever really appreciated and I often regretted not spending that money on making memories with the kids.

You forget that children only ever want your time and your live. Anything else they really do not need, they just want to be encouraged, told your proud of them but sometimes taking them away so you can spend that time with them should be paramount to escape your surroundings.

I also wrote an article on What To Do When You Want To Change Your Life that you might find interesting.

So the one thing I have learned through life is to just keep moving forward, stay happy, keep smiling, stay focussed and have big dreams in life. Don’t let life pass you by and make excuses of how you are unhappy.

We control our own destiny’s we are in charge of our own futures and if you are struggling to change your life then do check out my transformation program as I am there everyday to help you along the way to change your life and change your mindset.

So now you know what things I concentrated on in my life let me know the 5 Things You Would Like To Change About Your Life in the comments section below.

Wishing you all the very best in the future Scott

Can You Really Find Happiness In Life?

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A really interesting topic I thought I would write about today for the simple reason that so many people really seem to struggle with finding happiness in their lives.

Are you happy in your life? Do you feel like jumping out of bed in the morning and saying DAMN I am looking forward to today? Do you sing from the roof tops and dance in the rain?

Probably not is the answer because life is stressful right? One minute your up then your down. You want to be happy but every time you think you have found it is seems to disappear down the drainpipe like the rain on a showery day.

So can you change this in your life? Of course you can let me explain more below.

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You see with age comes knowledge and I myself have been in some crappy situations in life and some that I have just thought you know what this just cannot be what life had in store for me.

Then I lost everything out of the blue a decision my ex wife made to leave me. No questions no answers just threw me to the wolves. The feeling I felt at the time of knowing that I could not be with my beautiful daughter again was the most horrible feeling I have ever felt.

From that day forward I changed my life forever. I vowed that I would never put someone else’s happiness before mine ever again. Because without knowing it I had done everything for everyone else and become unhappy as a result of my actions. I did a video on this you might find useful here.

I started reading lots of really useful books on personal and self development and one thing really stood out to me. What if happiness really was a choice. What if you decided whether you were happy or not. What if you took control of your life back from the selfish souls that try and drag you into their dungeon of unhappiness. What would happen then?

So that is what I did I stopped listening to other people. I decided their opinions although valued where just opinions. That how I took those opinions and how I acted on them was down to myself. The way I viewed life was now through my own eyes and not anyone elses.

Then I realized that life really is what you make it. You choose to let people upset you, you choose to be unhappy in your job, you choose not take life by the balls and do something about it. A really hard message I know because all of a sudden you change your aspect on life to one that makes you in control of it.

There isn’t anyone else to blame for things, there is just you and the decisions you make and whether they are good or bad one’s you can face them because you made them.

Not being guided by what other people think is a liberating experience because people will always critisize you and have an opinion on whether you are good enough to achieve what you want in life.

Well forget them, the only person you should listen to is yourself and when you make yourself responsible for your actions then you become responsible for your life itself. The only person you have to question about your achievements and your life is you.

By taking this attitude over the past year I have made all my dreams come true. Some people call this the law of attraction and many other things. I call it the common sense method of life.

Simply because when you approach life by being kind to others and sharing love and happiness, life has a habit of rewarding you with similar people. When you are spread misery and unhappiness life rewards you with the same result.

So here are my top tips on finding happiness so that you can also use them in your life too.

  • Learn to communicate. For every conversation you have someone you will learn that they see a completely different side of it than you. No one is right or wrong in an argument you just both have different view points.
  • Be kind to people. Kindness costs nothing and when you spread it yourself it will come back to you.
  • Learn to smile even when you feel like crap. Smiling really does help to lift your mood. Just look at others when you pass them on the street and say hi.
  • Do the best you can at everything regardless of whether you want to or not
  • The World needs great people who are courageous and willing to help others make sure that you become one of them. Helping others really is a great feeling and I did a video of becoming a better you here.
  • If something really does pee you off do something about it. If you just complain all the time the situaition will just continue to do your head in.
  • Realize that you can have anything you want in life as long as y ou are willing to put in the effort to get there.

Life really is and can be what you make it guys. Make your own reality , make your own happiness. Do everything you can to look at your situation and make it better. Quite often you have nothing to lose by trying and having a go you just have to get rid of those limiting beliefs that stop you from getting there.

It really takes about 6 weeks to change bad habits so just start your day with a smile and if you need help on your journey to change your life then join my transformation program today where I will help you alng the way. You can find out more here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

So the best of luck on your journey and I hope to see you on the program soon. Best wishes Scott

How can I change my life with no money

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Today I was thinking about my own situation and the question how can I change my life with no money came back into mind. You see money is important but it will not make you happy. I discuss the importance of money itself in this video post 

So let’s have a look at how you can change your life if you have no money, because life is definitely about mindset and combine that with the tips I give in my change your life transformation program you will be on your way to understanding how you can live a successful life and attract all the money that you want as well. 

Tips on changing your life without having any money to spend

  • You can attract money by using the law of attraction to guide you on the way. Now it may seem mystical that you can attract anything you want in life but the reason it doesn’t work for everyone is because of the below
    • In life you need to have a plan, you need to write down everything that you want on paper. Once you have written down what you want, you have to spend time thinking about your options to obtain those things. When you spend 30 minutes a day in the morning and the evening you are confirming in your mind that you want those things and ideas will start popping into your head on how to obtain them. Most people just have random thoughts occasionally and do not concentrate on commanding what they want. 
    • You need to start forcing yourself to be happy with your situation, even if you have no money you need to dream and envisage what it will be like for you to become rich and what you would spend all that money on and how it could and can change your life
    • Be nice to people because you never know who you might meet or bump into in your daily routine. For me I met a guy in the pub one day who changed my life forever and it was only by striking up a conversation with him and becoming friends that I got my first stepping stone into my career progression. This has happened numerous times since then when you bother to spread kindness and love to others. 
    • Spreading kindness and love will attract similar things into your life as well. If you give to the Universe the law of reciprocity will pay you back. I discuss this more in my transformation program and the video about spreading happiness here
    • If you have a job currently you should always do your best to be the best you can at it. Most jobs can be rewarding no matter what they are if you change your attitude about the way you view them. I also put a video together on how you can make your job better you can find here
    • Network with people and don’t be afraid to ask them if they have any spare jobs. Most employers nowadays are looking for honest and hardworking people to help run their business. If you show tenacity and commitment sometimes it doesn’t matter if you don’t have the skills they will employ you anyway because of your attitude

Now for me I can give advice on this subject because I have always done well in life by following some of the principles that I am going to highlight below.

But I have had money and to be fair all the materialistic things in the World will not make you happy. So if you are looking for money to make you happy I’m afraid that you have to find happiness first and foremost and then the money will follow. 

Follow these simple tips below for finding happiness and letting the money find you

  • In your current job get on the right side of your boss. Do all the jobs that are causing them problems. As a reward for taking the stress away from them you will get what you deserve. All the other employees will sit there moaning while you reap the rewards
  • Find happiness everywhere, follow my program and jump out of bed in the morning with a smile and see your life as a challenge and not something you are not happy with
  • Change your attitude from needing money to wanting money and how it can improve your lifestyle and why it would add value to your life. Most people who win the lottery fail to keep it because they have no clue about what value it can give them in life
  • As above write everything down about why money is so important to you and then put a plan together on how you can achieve it. You can make money even by creating videos on youtube nowadays on any topic and find a following that loves what you have to say. So there are no excuses here for not finding ways to make some additional money
  • Look at your life and see whether you have any special gifts to offer the World – if you do then it is about time you showed the World your worth and get yourself out there
  • Actually do something about your situation, don’t just complain you have no money. If you do this you will attract all the things that you do not want and will end up never getting the money you are after
  • Everything takes time and a little effort but if you look at your situation now, it can’t be any harder than it is to put on a brave face and go looking for opportunities to change your life in anyway you can
  • Don’t beat yourself about it, it is just the situation you are in currently and if you follow the above it is surprising how quickly your life can change if you just put a plan together and work towards implementing it
  • Most people will never have money because they believe they are not worth it. But Bill Gates and every other billionaire on the planet has exactly the same time in a day and started in exactly the same place as you. The only difference is they had a plan with a lifestyle and a go getters attitude to achieve their dreams
  • Dream big and spend everyday thinking what your life will look like when you get the job of your dreams, the money of your dreams and just stop all the excuses 

Life can be hard right guys but it is only as hard as we make it. When we take the time to forge our future and put a plan together it is just amazing what we can achieve. 

Don’t listen to others as they will only hold you back and stop wishing to win the lottery as this is unlikely to happen. What will happen however is if you put a smile on your face and follow the tips as above you will have a plan you can measure on how you are going to change your life and attract the money you deserve. 

It won’t happen overnight so you need to stay consistent for at least 6 mths but it will happen just believe. 

So get out there make a plan and I wish you every luck in obtaining the life of your dreams. 

Best wishes Scott

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Books that will change your life forever

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I was thinking about a few things today and one of those things was books that will change your life forever and how the book clarity changed mine in the most dramatic way.

I even did a video on it for my 60 day transformation program that you can do yourself. You can find out more about it by clicking here 

See I have always been into personal development from when I was a teenager and that brought together with the law of attraction is a powerful beast in changing your life in the most positive ways. 

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The book clarity was my favourite mainly because it fitted in with my idea of not worrying about things and just sitting back and the answers will just walk through the door and they generally do. 

You see the mistake most people make is that they make decisions straight away which are normally not the best to make unless you are absolutely sure that it is the right decision. But if you take time out and go and sit in the quiet away from your surroundings then the answer normally comes to you when you least expect it. 

Other books that will change the way you think are

  1. The secret is a great book. A lot of people think that it is nonsense about the law of attraction and the way it can bring anything into your life but I can tell you it does work. I talk about this and many more things in my transformation program you can join here The basis of it is that what you give out in your life is what you receive back. In many forms this is true because positives attract and positives and negatives attract negatives. Examples are where you have wished for something and it has come true – negative examples are were you are really unhappy about receiving a bill for something and then more bills come in. It is really a fascinating concept and you should look more into it. 
  2. My second favourite is Brian Tracy and any of his books will do – he is just an amazing salesman and positive person that he shows you that if you want to do something well. Then go and find someone else that is doing it and copy them. Very basic introduction really but to be honest it is true, many people try and forge new ideas on to fail when you can walk the path of the successful and follow them all the way to success too. 
  3. My third favourite is any of Tony Robbins books because this guy just rocks. He has been able to change the lives of so many people in such a positive way that he is just see as an emperor in the personal productivity field. 
  4. My fourth favourite book is Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. This is an awesome book and if you get it then you can work out what the secret to life is and adapt your ways of thinking in so many ways. I am not going to tell you to much about this book because you need to go and buy a copy and see for yourself. 

Not many people bother to read books nowadays and for personal development it is really important to open your eyes to different viewpoints and how the world works and how you can adapt to change yourself. 

Most people say they just do not have enough time in their busy lives to sit down and read a book in peace and quiet. Now that might be due to advent of social media but to be honest if you question how much time you spend on these and how much value they give it is probably limited to be fair. 

So next time you are thinking off doing something with your time go and do some research on the 100 must read life changing books and see if there any that float your boat enough to spend the time out reading them. 

I always take time out now because we need downtime and even if it is just 20 minutes a day at bedtime – reading and updating your skills is paramount in today’s world of survival. 

Additional searches you can also carry out relative to books that will change your life forever are below

I hope you do manage to pick up a book and also check out my transformation program on how you can change your life by watching 60 – 5 short videos a day. 

Take care and best wishes Scott

To Change Your Life You Need To Change Your Priorities

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Life can be an uphill struggle sometimes and if you really want to change your life you need to change your priorities is a statement that quite often rings true.

Now this doesn’t mean anything more than putting yourself and your own happiness first and foremost in life. This is not being selfish but purely a means to makings sure that you are priority number 1.

I learnt this the hard way over my time and after some life changing events I put together my change your life transformation program you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk 

It is a 60 day program you can use if you want to change your life by changing your priorities. But in the meantime check out my top tips below on the best way to start changing your priorities in order to change your life.

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My Top Tips On Addressing And Changing The Priorities In Your Life

  • A great place to start is by watching this video I put together on why your own happiness should come first and foremost
  • If you watched the video you would find that if you are happy then everyone around you is happy too. But when life is getting you down then everyone else is affected by this
  • Concentrating on yourself is not selfish it just means that you are only doing things when it fits in with your lifestyle and adds meaningful value to your daily routine
  • Life should be a happy adventure but if you are giving too much and getting nothing in return then it might be that your priorities need to change to yourself
  • Some of us in life tend to get walked over if we don’t have a path that we are following. We get lost and everything becomes a muddle so sometimes we need to make a decision about changing our lives and I wrote an article about this here I Want To Change My Life Where Do I Start
  • Some priorities that you can look at changing are listed below if you want to change your life starting today
    • Start saying no if you don’t have the time or the inclination to do things. It is a really hard thing to do but sometimes No is the correct answer
    • Start saying yes more to things in your life that could add massive value as you will get more enjoyment out of life
    • Stop rushing around to do things. In order to change your priorities sometimes having an organized list of things to do will keep you on time and schedule
    • Prioritize the most important things and difficult things first and foremost. Putting these off will just cause you more stress so take a DO IT NOW attitude to getting things done
    • Prioritize your life and get yourself on track with goals and ideas on making life fun and exciting. Do more things, find more passions and get out there and create an adventure
    • Prioritize your kids and your partner first and foremost. They will be the most important things in your life and need your time and commitment so they should be the top of your list for everything
    • Prioritize your jobs and what needs doing and when. Not everything needs to be done at once and something will and can wait
    • Realize that time goes very quickly so don’t put off your ideas or dreams, make these a priority because they will change your life in miraculous ways
    • Become organized with everything you do through good time management practices. Although it sounds boring following lists you will feel more accomplished when you start ticking things of your list
    • If you are not good at prioritizing tasks take some pointers on youtube such as this great video
    • Think about what is important in your life and prioritize your finances around supporting them. Such as booking holidays, getting xmas gifts early, booking weekends away. By planning these you will make sure that you have the cash and the drive to make them happen

All that sounds easy doesn’t it? But prioritizing everything in order to change your life is essential. Otherwise we just seem to have a load of things to do all the time and never seem to get through it.

Organizing yourself is something that some people are great at however but others really struggle with. But if you have a list of everything you need to do and when it needs doing by you will get everything done.

Prioritizing will give you more time because you will become more efficient in everything that you need to do and that means you can do more great things.

If you need help with changing your life and living a greater level of happiness. Then check out my transformation program will you will learn lots of great things about life and how you can transform yours.

A part of that is prioritizing but in order to do that you need to have your head screwed on first and be fairly happy in life and put all the building blocks together in the first place.

So good luck in the future and I hope to see you soon, best wishes Scott

Changing Your Lifestyle For The Better

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Have you ever sat down and thought about your life and what would make it better? Have you ever really wanted to look at changing your lifestyle for the better with a real plan of action to get there?

If you answered yes to the above and I hope to fill you with a lot of tips below in how you can change your life starting today and finally feel in control of your life forever.


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You see life can be an absolute nightmare at times and test us till we just cannot take it anymore. This is usually the case when we are not in control of ourselves or our surroundings. When other people have an impact that disrupts our lives in a way that it inserts unhappiness in our daily routines.

Here are my top tips on changing your life for the better

  • It is your life so do not let others control you or tell you that you cannot do something. We can do anything we want in life we put our minds to it. A passion for life will always be more powerful than any other skill you can learn.
  • The saying what goes around comes around is true. You cannot change or live a happy life if you do not treat others exactly how you would like to be treated. This is how the universe works and when you give off good vibes you get them back and when you give off bad vibes you get them back too. I did a video on the power of the mind you can view here which goes into this topic in more detail.
  • Read my article on the 5 Things You Would Like To Change About Your Life and start making a list yourself of priority items that would make your life more fulfilled in everyway.
  • Believe that you are the controller of your own destiny. The only things we have control off in our lives is our thoughts and how we react to situations. Everything else happens without our control. When you can master your thoughts in any given situation and see it as a lesson you will always come out of the other end smiling.
  • Stop talking to people who bitch and complain all the time. We all have a choice to better ourselves in life. Whether that is by having an important career, looking after our families, spreading love but when you have negative energy around you it doesn’t take long to bring you into this state too.
  • Most of the time we just need a little help and encouragement. If you haven’t had anyone cheer you on in life and support and encourage you. Then check out my change your life program where I will help you change your life for the better over a 60 day period.
  • Don’t ever give up on your dreams, if you want something dream it then put a plan together on how you will achieve it and you will get there by hook or by crook.
  • Learn to master your thoughts, make your mind quite. When you have a million things going around in your head it is no wonder that we become confused and stressed and don’t know where to start when making changes in our lives.
  • Put yourself first and foremost. It is your life and you deserve to be happy. You deserve to live a fulfilled life and chase your dreams. We are all special in our own way and when we find our talent or passion it is amazing how quickly your life will change.
  • Always be kind to others, if you want others to support you then offer that support to them too. The Law of reciprocity says that when you give you shall receive. Being kind to others should be a free gift of will and will always put a smile on someone’s face.
  • See a change in lifestyle as not only a challenge but something exciting about how your life is going to improve and how much happier you will be as a result of making changes to your daily routines.
  • Just make a decision to do it. No excuses that you will do it when things change. If you leave things too long something will come and change your circumstances for you and that is what you don’t want.
  • Believe that your life can change. We all have our history and bad pasts but when you can look other this and don’t let your past dictate your future. It opens up a World of possibilities.
  • Never restrict yourself by what you think can and cannot be done. Anything can be achieved and anything can be done when you try hard enough to get there.

So they are my top tips on changing your life for the better and if you would like to know more and get help with changing your lifestyle then do check out my transformation program you will love it.

All we need sometimes is just a little help that we are making the right decisions and that we are worthy of living the life of our dreams. I wish you all the very best in your future and hope you make a decision to change your life starting today.

Best wishes Scott

Waking Up In The Morning With A Smile On Your Face

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To me starting the day in a good way is the only way to go. If you set yourself up by getting out of bed on the right side then the rest of the day will go however you want it too.

There is nothing worse than waking up in a bad mood or being with someone who is in a bad mood too. I did a video on my morning routine you can find here if you want to know how I start the day.

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Here are my top tips on waking up in the morning

  • Take your time waking up. if you have a partnet give them a massive cuddle and a kiss tell them they look amazing. Give them a tickle on the back and spend some quality time with each other before starting the day.
  • Jump out of bed energized thinking about what the day holds for you. Remembering that the power of mind controls the way you think. I did a good video on the power of the mind you can find here .
  • If you wake up in a bad mood thinking that you can’t stand going to work, you hate your homelife or whatever it is. That is the way you are going to feel. If you are not enjoying your work then watch this video.
  • Put a smile on your face. When you look in the mirror go darn it I look good today. Even if you are aware you might have an extra greay hair or you look battered from the day before. You need to look at yourself and think darn I look good.
  • Put some good music on that will get your heart pumping as you brush your teeth and wiggle your bum to your favourite tune.
  • Say gooood moorrniiing to your kids even if they jump on your head at 4am they are just really pleased to see you and the time doesn’t last long when there young. So enjoy every moment of it.
  • Turn of any bad news on the tv in fact switch the tv off altogether and sit down with your partner and your family and have a chat about the day ahead.
  • If you are on your own write down your plans for the day. If you haven’t got any then make some. We all need to have someething to look forward to at the end of a hard day so get yourself a hobby and do something different today.
  • Read this article on how to make the most out of everyday
  • Say hi to someone on the way to work and have a chat with them. A lot of the time we have lost the art of communication and sometimes you will meet some awesome people if you just give them a smile and engage in conversation. Watch this video for inspiration.
  • Happiness really is a choice. I know I have been in the deepest darkest places and once you let unhappiness conquer your thoughts it consumes you quicker than an elephant sucking up a peanut. That is why you have to put a smile on your face. If you don’t everything around you will just suck in more and more unhappiness. Check out this video about the law of attraction for how this theory works.

I hope all the above helps you to smile throughout the day. I know what it is like to live a life where you are under valued, unhappy and feels like it is going nowhere.

I also understand how difficult it is to change your attitude and your lifestyle so that you actually enjoy everyday. I went through hard times myself and as part of that I video’d my journey on how I found the life of my dreams. It will help you too and all you have to do is join me by watching the videos in my change your life transformation program you can find here. https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

I hope you have a wicked day, life and wish you every success in the future Scott

How can you change your life in just 6 months

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I was sitting here thinking just how can you change your life in just 6 months and what I can do to help you get there. You see I completely changed my life around and I feel so good everyday that I wouldn’t ever go back to the way I was even if you gave me a million pounds. 

You see most people just won’t change their life until it is too late and that is pretty common across all people. We wake up everyday, we are really busy, we want things, but we don’t want them enough to really do anything about it. This is something I discuss in more detail in my 60 day change your life transformation program. 

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Because that is exactly what happened to me and I lost everything, then I had to work out how to change my life as quickly as possible too. Otherwise those demons come out to get you and that it is a place that none of us really want to go. 

But lets jump in and work out some ways that you can change your life in just 6mths without having to lose everything first and foremost. 

Think about whether you are happy or not

If you are really not happy in your life and you have done everything you can think possible to change it, then it is likely that you need to move on. Sometimes we have hard decisions in life but if you are not yourself and you are living a compromised lifestyle then that is doing you no good at all. 

All that will happen is that your happiness will diminish over time and you will lose who you are and what your purpose is in life. Which is why I created the first video in my change your life transformation program as being you are the most important person to think about first in your life

If you look after your own happiness then you will be smiling and then everyone around you will be smiling too. But when you are down and unhappy for whatever reason this rubs off on others and before you know it no one wants to be around you and they become grumpy in your presence too. 

So always put yourself first and foremost and that doesn’t mean being selfish because your family, friendships and children should be priority but you cannot give them your all if you are not feeling yourself. 

Change is inevitable and you are better being in control of it

When you are thinking about how to change your life around, change plays a massive part in it. Change can either be something that is done to you or something that you partake in and have input into the results. 

So let me give you an example – you are unhappy in your marriage or relationship but you compromise and stay because it just seems easier than breaking up and going through all the hassle – so you settle for just an okay life. 

Then your partner runs off with someone younger as they recognise things aren’t right. This is enforced change and I can tell you that you do not want this route to happen because it leaves you bitter, twisted and can take a long time to get over. 

But and I am not saying leave your partner by the way either but you see that things aren’t going right – you do everything you can to talk and communicate with them but you can’t agree and know that it will never get better. 

You decide that you should go your separate ways – neither of you have met anyone else but are hurt by the decision. But you can negotiate the house, the kids and everything else because it is a mutual agreement that you are not meant for each other.

This is called controlled change and once you take control you get more positive results. Unfortunately most people go for the first option because they believe meeting someone else first will make all the difference. It doesn’t by the way it just leads to a world of hell. 

So take control of your life through change and be in control of who you have in your life and how your life is going to go. 

Next is learning how to make positive changes in your life

One of the major things in life is to have clarity of your thoughts. I discussed this in the video clarity in my change your life transformation program. One of the reasons we are unhappy is because we think about things when we are already stressed out. 

When you are stressed you play things back and forth in your head and then make irrational decisions because they are based on emotions and not any real thought process behind me. 

Let me give you an example because this is one of the ways that you will be able to work out how to change your life in 3 months

Example – you wake up in the morning and you are rushing around. Your partner is rushing around trying to get the kids ready and the house is just chaos. Your partner is rude to you and you are not happy. 

You jump in the car and rush to work and get stuck in traffic. Then your thoughts jump in and you replay the mornings events. Damn my house is chaos everyone hates each other, my partner is a nightmare and I hate my life.

Now this is easily done but it doesn’t help your situation because there will be loads of other times that your household is a happy one and full of love. 

One of the ways that allows you to achieve a 6 month life transformation is either by turning positives into negatives or  accepting that this was just a bad day and everything will be cool when you get home. 

Ask your yourself why and how you want to change your life around

Most people know why they want to change their life they just cannot make a decision on making the change. That is mainly down to confidence in your decisions and belief in your actions. I talked about this in more detail in this video

The fact is you have to believe in your yourself and the decisions that you make. After all it is your life and even with the great advice you take from people, no one knows you better than you. Once you learn to understand what makes you tick and what makes you happy, life and the way to transform it gets to much easier. But get the basics right first understand how to make positive changes in your life and embrace change by doing the below things

  • Work out what you want to change. Don’t go for everything in one go, although it is good to make a list of everything – you can only change one thing at a time.
  • Work out what you think would be the best path to take to achieve the change or several paths if needed
  • Make a conscious decision that you will put a plan together on when you are going to implement your plan above
  • Stand by the choices you make and do not go back. Going back is easy when you are convinced by others, but if you had clarity on moving forward – keep moving
  • Monitor the change for improvements and see if value has been added by the changes you have made
  • Make more changes that you recognise you want to make and implement the above as fast as you can. 

Look guys the truth is if you want to transform your life as quickly as possible then all you need to really do is take action on whatever you think is the right path to take without hesitation. Go with your gut, wake up one morning and think damn enough is enough I am going to change and I am going to make this work.

I am with you every step of the way in my transformation video if you need the support to help you get there I just cannot make those decisions for you. So if you haven’t taken advantage of it already you can find out more here 

Be good take care and see you soon Scott

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My Happy Thoughts About Life

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I was sitting in my conservatory today thinking about my happy thoughts about life and how they might also be able to help you find happiness in your life. 

You see one day I came home from work stressed as a donkey at a beach party and my wife explained she didn’t want me anymore. Later on moving out with my 5 year old daughter I felt like my life had come to a dramatic end suddenly. 

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No discussions, no talks, just a decision that would not only impact her but my daughter and I for the rest of our lives. Now there was only one of two things I could do – go down into a furnace of hell and depression or raise from the ashes and blow the World away with my happiness. 

I chose the latter and also put together a 60 day transformation program that will also help you gain the ultimate happiness by following my tips. You can find out more about it by clicking here 

But rising from the Ashes takes some work I can tell you but below are my top tips on living a happy lifestyle that will never change.

My top tips on having happy thoughts about life

  • The first thing I did when my wife moved out was buy enormous canvasses of everything I wanted to remind myself of being happy. They consisted off
    • My kids so I could smile at them all the time and say goodnight and good morning to them even if I couldn’t be there with them
    • A graffiti canvas of “All you need is Love”
    • A graffiti canvas of “Keep Smiling”
    • A graffiti canvas of “Stay Happy”
    • A graffiti canvas of “Music is Life”
  • Now the above may not seem much – but when you wake up in the morning and go to bed at night it is really important that you surround yourself with happy thoughts and feelings
  • Happiness really is a choice. Even though I lost everything I found that just putting a smile on my face in the morning did me the world of good. Force yourself to jump out of bed in the morning and make yourself feel and look good no matter the weather. You can find some good morning and daily rituals in my video here
  • Walk out your door with a smile on your face – say Hi to people you don’t know, be kind to people and help others along your way. Every spread of kindness you give aids your own happiness. There is an article here you can read
  • Have a plan in life. When you are always moving forward trying to achieve your goals in life, then you don’t have time for all the other crap that brings you down. Fill your head with dreams of happiness and what will bring you the ultimate lifestyle 
  • Spend time with your kids if you have them. Sit with them share time with them and let them know they are the most important thing in your life. The jobs can all wait. You can watch this video here about getting your kids to respect you 
  • Spend time on your own thinking about your life and see what happy thoughts pop into your mind. Sometimes in life we spend more time thinking about the bad things instead of laughing at all the good times. We take millions of pictures but never look back at them, always record and remember good times for the future
  • Share great times with your partner, reignite the love that you have all the time by sending lovely little messages, love letters off your dates. Being in love with someone who adores you brings the most happiness in life it is unbelieveable and true love is just amazing
  • Get out in the outdoors and enjoy yourself, do fun things, organize events with your friends. Sometimes we get lost in life with our daily routines and forget that happiness and enjoyment is just around the corner but it doesn’t come unless we do something about it
  • Look at life as being an opportunity, when we embrace our pasts as being lessons and opportunities for growth. It allows you to look back on any past situation and be happy for the results you have now not what you didn’t have then
  • Whack some comedies on or go out to some shows and have a blast. Laughter brings happiness and you should surround yourself with it at every opportunity
  • When you get older there is a true saying that life goes to quickly and until you get old you really don’t realize how true that is. So don’t let life pass you by, get out there be you, do amazing things and above all else keep smiling

As part of my new lifestyle I lost 5 stone and feel great. I haven’t let my past dictate my future but have just learned to love unconditionally without expectations. We all get hurt in life by others, but we cannot blame them for making their own choices and if that is not being with us then so be it. 

All of that does not make us bad people it just means we are giving our gifts of happiness and love to the wrong people and in order to create happy thoughts we have to find the right people instead. 

If you like what I have written here you will like the transformation program so if you haven’t signed up give it a whirl and we can have a laugh along the way to making your life also full of happy thoughts in the future too. 

Be good, best wishes for the future Scott