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Can You Really Find Happiness In Life?

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A really interesting topic I thought I would write about today for the simple reason that so many people really seem to struggle with finding happiness in their lives.

Are you happy in your life? Do you feel like jumping out of bed in the morning and saying DAMN I am looking forward to today? Do you sing from the roof tops and dance in the rain?

Probably not is the answer because life is stressful right? One minute your up then your down. You want to be happy but every time you think you have found it is seems to disappear down the drainpipe like the rain on a showery day.

So can you change this in your life? Of course you can let me explain more below.

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You see with age comes knowledge and I myself have been in some crappy situations in life and some that I have just thought you know what this just cannot be what life had in store for me.

Then I lost everything out of the blue a decision my ex wife made to leave me. No questions no answers just threw me to the wolves. The feeling I felt at the time of knowing that I could not be with my beautiful daughter again was the most horrible feeling I have ever felt.

From that day forward I changed my life forever. I vowed that I would never put someone else’s happiness before mine ever again. Because without knowing it I had done everything for everyone else and become unhappy as a result of my actions. I did a video on this you might find useful here.

I started reading lots of really useful books on personal and self development and one thing really stood out to me. What if happiness really was a choice. What if you decided whether you were happy or not. What if you took control of your life back from the selfish souls that try and drag you into their dungeon of unhappiness. What would happen then?

So that is what I did I stopped listening to other people. I decided their opinions although valued where just opinions. That how I took those opinions and how I acted on them was down to myself. The way I viewed life was now through my own eyes and not anyone elses.

Then I realized that life really is what you make it. You choose to let people upset you, you choose to be unhappy in your job, you choose not take life by the balls and do something about it. A really hard message I know because all of a sudden you change your aspect on life to one that makes you in control of it.

There isn’t anyone else to blame for things, there is just you and the decisions you make and whether they are good or bad one’s you can face them because you made them.

Not being guided by what other people think is a liberating experience because people will always critisize you and have an opinion on whether you are good enough to achieve what you want in life.

Well forget them, the only person you should listen to is yourself and when you make yourself responsible for your actions then you become responsible for your life itself. The only person you have to question about your achievements and your life is you.

By taking this attitude over the past year I have made all my dreams come true. Some people call this the law of attraction and many other things. I call it the common sense method of life.

Simply because when you approach life by being kind to others and sharing love and happiness, life has a habit of rewarding you with similar people. When you are spread misery and unhappiness life rewards you with the same result.

So here are my top tips on finding happiness so that you can also use them in your life too.

  • Learn to communicate. For every conversation you have someone you will learn that they see a completely different side of it than you. No one is right or wrong in an argument you just both have different view points.
  • Be kind to people. Kindness costs nothing and when you spread it yourself it will come back to you.
  • Learn to smile even when you feel like crap. Smiling really does help to lift your mood. Just look at others when you pass them on the street and say hi.
  • Do the best you can at everything regardless of whether you want to or not
  • The World needs great people who are courageous and willing to help others make sure that you become one of them. Helping others really is a great feeling and I did a video of becoming a better you here.
  • If something really does pee you off do something about it. If you just complain all the time the situaition will just continue to do your head in.
  • Realize that you can have anything you want in life as long as y ou are willing to put in the effort to get there.

Life really is and can be what you make it guys. Make your own reality , make your own happiness. Do everything you can to look at your situation and make it better. Quite often you have nothing to lose by trying and having a go you just have to get rid of those limiting beliefs that stop you from getting there.

It really takes about 6 weeks to change bad habits so just start your day with a smile and if you need help on your journey to change your life then join my transformation program today where I will help you alng the way. You can find out more here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

So the best of luck on your journey and I hope to see you on the program soon. Best wishes Scott

What Should I Do With My Life

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If you are sitting at home bored and thinking what should I do with my life. Then you are asking the right question. Often or not many of us really don’t know what to do with our lives.

After all when your 16 and choosing a career do you really know that you want to become a Doctor, Lawyer, Psychologist etc..? I personally don’t think you do in the majority of cases. But what I do know and what I can help with is finding happiness in your life so when you ask the question what should I do with my life that you take these tips into consideration first and foremost.

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Here are my top tips on changing your life for the better

  • Always think about what makes you happy first and foremost and don’t ever think you are stuck with the first idea that comes to mind. We live in a connected World were you can find education on any topic at any time and therefore don’t restrict yourself to a single job type as you might find you hate it.
  • Try different jobs with different companies. Often or not it is not about the job itself but more the people you work with, the comradery, fun and the results you get. So whilst one company may be a bit crappy another company in the same job could just be amazing.
  • Life is about happiness, it’s not about sitting there wasting your time making excuses. We can have anything we want in life if we are only willing to follow a path to get there. If you want to change your life and become a better person then check out this article I did here How Can I Change My Life And Become A Better Person
  • Find a passion that you are interested in and something that really makes you want to do it day in and day out. Being passionate about your work really is paramount in having a sustainable and fulfilling lifestyle. It might not always be achieve able but you can change your paths whenever you need too.
  • Dream as big as you can. Sit down and think every day about what you want out of life. It will probably start of with materialistic things like I want a nice car, a nice house, a big family, lots of vacations. But once you work out what is important to you then you can work out how you can go and get it.
  • Remember that kindness pays and when you are kind to people you will be surprised at what opportunities can present themselves to you. Many business owners now want people who are passionate, hard working and client orientated rather than just someone with qualifications. Having conversations with people you don’t know in the pub or walking down the street can lead to interesting adventures I promise you.
  • Just try loads of things and see what really puts a smile on your face. I really do think life is so much easier when you are generally happy anyway. When you look at things with a positive outlook everything else just seems to come together and fits into place.
  • Write everything down that you would like to change about your life and what you can do to have the biggest impact first and foremost.
  • Learn to say yes to the right people more and no to the wrong people and surround yourself with people who support your views and future .
  • Stay away from negativity as it is so easy to get pulled into other people’s troubles and before you know it you are complaining about life with them and joining their club. This is your life and if you do dream big I promise you wishes will come true.
  • Look at everything around you and see how big the World is. There is opportunity everywhere. Just be you and find your talent or interests and go out there and show the World what you have to offer.
  • Help others to get to where they want to be and by actively encouraging them to do well and supporting them you will get the same back yourself.
  • Just enjoy life for what it is. Create laughter everywhere you go and have fun. Don’t let all the noise and the troubles make you think that your life needs changing. Recognize the position you are in might need improving but you can always afford to have a laugh with your friends and family even when things don’t seem that great.
  • Believe that you can have a great life, that you deserve a great life. The only limitations are the thoughts you have that stop you from doing what you really want to do. Don’t let others persuade you otherwise either it is amazing how jealous people can become of others, especially when they see you succeeding in life.

So they are my tips on the question what should I do with my life and believe me I constantly ask myself the same question all the time.

I have worked out a system though that keeps me on top of my game and the anxiety and stress of having a good life at bay. It is a set of daily videos that can help you change your life too by changing your perception and living life. So please do feel free to join me at this link https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Wishing you all the best of luck in your life adventure Scott

How Can I Change My Life And Become A Better Person

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If you are thinking “how can i change my life and become a better person” then you are opening up your life to a World full of possibilities.

You see most people think it is everyone else that is the problem but when you can constructively look at your self inside and change your thoughts and feelings to improve your life. Then your life will change dramatically.

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Read my top tips on changing your life for the better below

  • Recognizing that your life can be improved is the first step on the ladder. Often or not we put up with a life of compromise but never truly really become the great person we were meant to be.
  • Often or not we have hopes and dreams but make excuses in obtaining them. This is the hard part to get over if you want to improve your life. Because you will have to make a conscious decision to get out there and start making changes.
  • Changes to your life can be fun, intriguing and as long as you see them as a learning curve when they go wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with trying anything and everything to improve your lifestyle.
  • Being critical in your thinking is paramount. If you treat people with kindness, fun and love then you will never need to look inside yourself when people treat you badly because you will have known you have been the best you can be.
  • Don’t let other people hold you back. Many times people will be unsupportive just because they haven’t got the balls to do some of the things you want to themselves.
  • The main things you want to be looking for when changing your life for the better is your own internal happiness. You must remember that money, fame, fortune will not make you happy unless you are happy in yourself, your family life etc… So concentrate on them first and foremost.
  • Making changes to your life can be something small or it can be something big but ultimately you have to control your own destiny and try and find out what makes you smile and what makes you want to get out of the bed in the morning.
  • When one part of your life makes sense and you are happy you can generally put up with all the other troubles that come flying in. Overlooking all the problems in your life and staying on top of your happy emotions is paramount.
  • When Changing Your Lifestyle For The Better you really want to have a plan in place so you don’t have loads of crazy thoughts running through your mind. This will just make you feel overwhelmed that everything needs to change when in fact a lot of things are normally linked and therefore concentrating on one thing at a time will bring the most success.
  • You can look at making small changes like your appearance, the way you perceive things, the way you interpret things very quickly. If you take time to process your thoughts and deal with everything in a positive manner it is amazing how quickly your life will change. This is due to the law of attraction and wishing for things that you want and not things that you do not want.
  • Happiness comes from within and choosing to make the most of things is the best course of action. Yes it is not easy to have a happy disposition on things all the time but you feel so much better when you let all the stresses of life pass you by. After all nothing is more important than your sanity.
  • I decided to change lots of things in my life because I knew that I was overweight and that dictated a lot of the time how I felt about things. After now losing it all and getting fit I have a new look on life because my body is fit my mind takes care of itself. You can find out more about my weight loss here
  • Your life is the most important thing to you and if you are living a happy life everything around you will start to fit into place. So you need to concentrate on yourself and put yourself first sometimes, do the things that make you happy and then look after everyone else later.

But life can be hard and a struggle and I get that as I have been there myself and when you are down it is really hard to get up and be motivated. But if you are still asking how can I change my life and become a better person then why don’t you check out my change your life transformation program.

It is a set of videos that walk you daily through making small changes that will ultimately when implemented and used daily will change your life for the better. You can find out more about it here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Wishing you all the best in your transformation journey Scott

Changing Your Lifestyle For The Better

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Have you ever sat down and thought about your life and what would make it better? Have you ever really wanted to look at changing your lifestyle for the better with a real plan of action to get there?

If you answered yes to the above and I hope to fill you with a lot of tips below in how you can change your life starting today and finally feel in control of your life forever.


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You see life can be an absolute nightmare at times and test us till we just cannot take it anymore. This is usually the case when we are not in control of ourselves or our surroundings. When other people have an impact that disrupts our lives in a way that it inserts unhappiness in our daily routines.

Here are my top tips on changing your life for the better

  • It is your life so do not let others control you or tell you that you cannot do something. We can do anything we want in life we put our minds to it. A passion for life will always be more powerful than any other skill you can learn.
  • The saying what goes around comes around is true. You cannot change or live a happy life if you do not treat others exactly how you would like to be treated. This is how the universe works and when you give off good vibes you get them back and when you give off bad vibes you get them back too. I did a video on the power of the mind you can view here which goes into this topic in more detail.
  • Read my article on the 5 Things You Would Like To Change About Your Life and start making a list yourself of priority items that would make your life more fulfilled in everyway.
  • Believe that you are the controller of your own destiny. The only things we have control off in our lives is our thoughts and how we react to situations. Everything else happens without our control. When you can master your thoughts in any given situation and see it as a lesson you will always come out of the other end smiling.
  • Stop talking to people who bitch and complain all the time. We all have a choice to better ourselves in life. Whether that is by having an important career, looking after our families, spreading love but when you have negative energy around you it doesn’t take long to bring you into this state too.
  • Most of the time we just need a little help and encouragement. If you haven’t had anyone cheer you on in life and support and encourage you. Then check out my change your life program where I will help you change your life for the better over a 60 day period.
  • Don’t ever give up on your dreams, if you want something dream it then put a plan together on how you will achieve it and you will get there by hook or by crook.
  • Learn to master your thoughts, make your mind quite. When you have a million things going around in your head it is no wonder that we become confused and stressed and don’t know where to start when making changes in our lives.
  • Put yourself first and foremost. It is your life and you deserve to be happy. You deserve to live a fulfilled life and chase your dreams. We are all special in our own way and when we find our talent or passion it is amazing how quickly your life will change.
  • Always be kind to others, if you want others to support you then offer that support to them too. The Law of reciprocity says that when you give you shall receive. Being kind to others should be a free gift of will and will always put a smile on someone’s face.
  • See a change in lifestyle as not only a challenge but something exciting about how your life is going to improve and how much happier you will be as a result of making changes to your daily routines.
  • Just make a decision to do it. No excuses that you will do it when things change. If you leave things too long something will come and change your circumstances for you and that is what you don’t want.
  • Believe that your life can change. We all have our history and bad pasts but when you can look other this and don’t let your past dictate your future. It opens up a World of possibilities.
  • Never restrict yourself by what you think can and cannot be done. Anything can be achieved and anything can be done when you try hard enough to get there.

So they are my top tips on changing your life for the better and if you would like to know more and get help with changing your lifestyle then do check out my transformation program you will love it.

All we need sometimes is just a little help that we are making the right decisions and that we are worthy of living the life of our dreams. I wish you all the very best in your future and hope you make a decision to change your life starting today.

Best wishes Scott

5 Things You Would Like To Change About Your Life – What Are They

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Today’s topic is all about “5 things you would like to change about your life – What are They? I am only interested because when my life fell apart it was really important for me to concentrate on the 5 things you see below that changed my life dramatically and you can tell me what 5 things would change your life too.

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The 5 Things I Used To Change My Life

  • I swore to never give my time to those people that didn’t give anything back
  • I swore to never let my past have an impact on my future
  • I swore I would never ever be overweight again and chose fitness to be a lifestyle choice I will never go back on
  • I swore to be happy everyday and not let anyone bring me down
  • I swore to love my partner and my children and put them first each and every time they needed me

Now those 5 things might not seem much to you but let me explain why I chose these in the first place and what impact it had on my life.

You see one day my life fell apart my job was in jeopardy and as a result my wife couldn’t take the pressure and decided she didn’t see me as the man I once was.

Now when you have 2 massive life changing experiences happen at the same time you have 2 choices – go down with the ship and live a life of depression and anxiety or you rise from the rafters and never put yourself in that position ever ever again.

Sometimes you never know people or what they are really thinking in life. People interpret situations and conversations in an entirely different way than you think they have taken them.

Everyone is allowed in this World to make choices and decisions that impact their life and to live a life they justly deserve. Once you grasp the concept that sometimes you can be wrong, you can improve, you do make mistakes and see them as something you can use to improve your life then your life itself will change.

So I decided to cut everyone out of my life that said anything negative about my ex wife or couldn’t see her side of the story. Many people where riddled with anger due to the circumstances but I didn’t feel that she deserved it. I also cut out anyone from my life that wasn’t there for me in a positive way either. This was great at really sifting through the useless parasites in my life that added no value at all and giving me time to concentrate and spend time with those that did matter.

I told myself that I wouldn’t let this situation or my other previous divorce dictate how I would feel in the future either. I became determined to only give my time to my true love this time. No compromises nothing, they had to be absolutely perfect in every way and adore me for my kindness and generosity.

It is sometimes easy for us to get caught up in life get whisked away with the feelings of love and finally get married. But I knew those 2 times it just wasn’t going to be right and I shouldn’t have gone ahead with getting married. But I now have 3 amazing and beautiful children I adore and they are the best thing ever so I don’t regret anything whatsoever.

By the way I put together a transformation program for you guys too on how I went from being anxious and overweight to absolutely loving life by changing my habits and my priorities. You should really check it out if you need help changing your life too. You can find it here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

The next thing I did was lose the weight I had put on through working away and eating too many meals and too much beer. You can find out more about me losing 5 stone here It was actually pretty easy to achieve as all I did was walk for an hour a day up the hills and ate fish or chicken with salad or vegetables and ketosis kicked in and the weight dropped off me.

I now actually train 3 times a day to keep myself occupied and busy but being fit and eating home cooked foods and cutting out the beer has changed my life dramatically. It is great to have so much energy and be able to play with the kids all day long.

If you look after your body your mind will also look after itself too. So if you are suffering from anxiety or depression fitness really is the way to go. The reason most people don’t like it or fail is because they think you have to beast yourself in the gym and that is not true.

Exercise is about burning calories and all you have to do is get on a treadmill put the incline on full and walk as fast as you can for half an hour a day. This will burn around 500 to 600 calories but you will continue to burn more afterwards. This is more than enough to kick start your metabolism and if you eat healthy the weight will drop off.

I also swore to be happy everyday because I realized that I am very lucky to have everything i have, although sometimes it can be hard to be grateful. But when you realize that life is for living and you are fit, you look forward to doing things, you are happy to make changes to your life, you can brush off things that annoy you and smiling really is the best thing for you and everyone around you. I did a video about how smiling at others can make you happy here

I swore to always put my partner first and family. You see I am very lucky in that I asked the Universe for a perfect partner after I was fed up of being on my own and that is what I got. The most beautiful and amazing lady that cherishes every minute she spends with me. Her love makes me want to buy her flowers, be a true gentleman, write her love letters, tell her shes beautiful because she puts as much effort into the relationship as I do.

I put my kids on the back burner for holidays to save up for new stables for my ex and other things. When it wasn’t ever really appreciated and I often regretted not spending that money on making memories with the kids.

You forget that children only ever want your time and your live. Anything else they really do not need, they just want to be encouraged, told your proud of them but sometimes taking them away so you can spend that time with them should be paramount to escape your surroundings.

I also wrote an article on What To Do When You Want To Change Your Life that you might find interesting.

So the one thing I have learned through life is to just keep moving forward, stay happy, keep smiling, stay focussed and have big dreams in life. Don’t let life pass you by and make excuses of how you are unhappy.

We control our own destiny’s we are in charge of our own futures and if you are struggling to change your life then do check out my transformation program as I am there everyday to help you along the way to change your life and change your mindset.

So now you know what things I concentrated on in my life let me know the 5 Things You Would Like To Change About Your Life in the comments section below.

Wishing you all the very best in the future Scott

What To Do When You Want To Change Your Life

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Sometimes you just sit down and think damn is life supposed to be this hard, aren’t I supposed to be happy and living a fulfilled life? That is where today’s article on “what to do when you want to change your life” comes from.

It is a question that a lot of people ask and at one stage I asked myself the same question several times. When some life changing events happened however I was forced to find what would help me change my life because it felt like it was over. You can find out more about my story in my 60 Day change your life program.

But let’s get back onto today’s topic of what to do when you want to change your life and put some handy tips for you below to follow.

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My Top Tips On What You Should Do To Change Your Life For The Better

  • Change in your life is always going to be uncomfortable at first but when you recognize that change invokes positive lifestyle changes when done properly it is easier to accept
  • Be in control of your life and change things yourself, don’t wait till the bitter end when change is enforced upon you
  • Create a list of things that you think will add massive value to your life. It doesn’t matter how wild or weird they sound, just write them down for now as a good place to start
  • Go through your list and see if there are any quick wins that you can pull out that will put a smile on your face. For every change that you can do that helps you get to where you want to be is a small step on the ladder to happiness no matter how small it is
  • Dream and dream big about things. Get some quiet time and just dream about what your dream life would be like, big house, loving family, nice car, vacations, hobbies whatever you want it to be
  • Once you have your dream mapped out even if it seems silly start thinking about ways that you can get them. Crazy as it sounds the universe has a way of bringing ideas and things into your life when you concentrate on really wanting them
  • Check out my article on 15 Ways To Change Your Thoughts And Transform Your Life if you want some additional tips for success
  • If you are bored in life get out there and try new things. You will never get anywhere sitting in front of the tele thinking your life away. Life should be an adventure get out there meet people go new places and have fun
  • Watch some of my change your life transformation videos for inspiration on making your life better on a daily basis. You can find them here
  • Talk to your friends and family about your plans and what you are doing. They may say you are daft and you will never achieve them. But if you chase your dreams and you try hard it will be you that is wiping the smile of their face when you get the paradise you are looking for
  • Don’t be scared to look at things to change your life. Sometimes small things like finding a new hobby can bring enormous happiness into your life and when you are in a happy and positive state, everything else seems so much easier too
  • You have to do things now. The longer you think about things the less likely you are to invoke change. As soon as you get a thought in your mind about doing something, put something in the diary straight away to do it. Everything in life likes speed, if you wait too long you will miss the boat on the idea
  • Get up and smile everyday, you are in total control of your own happiness and smiling at other people too really helps to create a lovely atmosphere around you
  • Talk to people as you walk down the street, get on the bus etc. Find out what they do and what excites them, it is amazing how many great people you will meet this way and the interesting things they get up to in life
  • Hang around with other dreamers and action takers. Having people around that encourage you find ways to change your life for the better is the best way to be. If you hang around with the nay sayers they will probably put you off

Now I know all of the above sounds pretty easy right. I learnt the hard way that chasing material things and trying to keep others in life does not make you happy.

What makes you happy inside is finding something rewarding in life, something that makes you smile. When you are happy you will find everyone around you will be happier too – great emotions really do rub off on others.

If you need some help finding other ways to change your life then think about joining my transformation program where I will be with you every day in a series of videos to spur you on to change your life for the better.

Wishing you all the best for the future Scott

15 Ways To Change Your Thoughts And Transform Your Life

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So today we are going to talk about the “15 ways to change your thoughts and transform your life”. Some of these are examples from how I transformed my life and others from experience coaching and mentoring others.

Before you start reading if you would really like to transform your life also check out my 60 day transformation program where you can get a head start with me helping you to make massive changes in your life. You can find more information here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

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Now onto my 15 ways to change your thoughts and transform your life

1 – If you really want to transform your life then you need to understand that your own thoughts control everything you do. Thoughts are an amazing thing and I did a video about what if everything you thought came true you can find here

2 – Controlling your thoughts is paramount in the way you think about things. If you think negative thoughts then your subconscious mind holds onto them and gives you more negatives. The same is true for positive thoughts. If you can turn positives into negatives then you are of too a good start

3 – Make a conscious decision that you want to change your life for the better and start creating a list of things that will help you get there. This list may change over time but having one in the first place is a great starting point

4 – Stop making excuses – this is about controlling your thoughts again. As an example you might want to lose weight and you think to yourself – right I am going to get down to the gym. But the one thing holding you back is your mind telling you that you can’t be bothered and you would rather stay in. Nothing will change in your life if you don’t take positive actions to do something. So stop the excuses as much as you can

5 – You will feel like you are not getting what you want as quickly as you want it. Be patient everything takes time and therefore you need to keep at it until you get the required result. Never quit because it is harder to start again than it is to try a little harder when you are already on the right track

6 – Don’t listen to what other people say. This is not their life it is yours and a lot of people do not like seeing others excel in life and jealousy can be a very strange thing even with people close to you

7 – Try and tackle one thing at a time. If you think your life is awful and you need to change your thoughts and your life then just focus on one key area first. Knock that one out of the park to build your confidence then move onto the next item

8 – You really need to have a plan of what you are trying to achieve against a list of tasks to achieve it. Marking these off as you achieve your goals is a great way to track overall progress

9 – Always put your best self forward. There is no point trying to change your life with half a heart. If you really want to make major changes you have to give everything your all. I did a video on this you can find here

10 – Use the power of your own mind to take control of your thoughts and back it up with a daily routine that brings happiness and concentration into your life. Check out this video

11 – If you want to change your life and transform your thoughts then you probably also need To Change Your Life You Need To Change Your Priorities

12 – Hang around with people that encourage you to make major changes in your life. People that will give you the morale support to get what you want and big you up when you get there

13 – Know that any bad thoughts that try and put you off course need controlling and putting to the back of your mind. These thoughts are only there to question you but when you are 100% sure you are taking the right direction to get to where you want to be these thoughts can be dismissed

14 – Reassess every time you make a change in your life. Was it what was expected and did it give you the result you were looking for. If so then great if not then no worries just try something else instead

15 – Just believe that you are worthy of having a great life and that you are capable of great things. If you find something you are passionate about in life and continue to do it then you will become great at it. When you are great at it others will want to know how you do it and will give you the admiration and feedback you need to keep cracking on

So they are the 15 ways to change your thoughts and transform your life and there is a lot more to it than that. But life is about you and no one else and if you are unhappy and want to change things then for your own sake do it now rather than regret it later.

If you would like a little help in transforming your life for the better then feel free to join my transformation program where I will be with you every step of the way for 60 days until you are feeling great and ready to take on the World.

Wishing you all the best of luck in your adventures Scott

To Change Your Life You Need To Change Your Priorities

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Life can be an uphill struggle sometimes and if you really want to change your life you need to change your priorities is a statement that quite often rings true.

Now this doesn’t mean anything more than putting yourself and your own happiness first and foremost in life. This is not being selfish but purely a means to makings sure that you are priority number 1.

I learnt this the hard way over my time and after some life changing events I put together my change your life transformation program you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk 

It is a 60 day program you can use if you want to change your life by changing your priorities. But in the meantime check out my top tips below on the best way to start changing your priorities in order to change your life.

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My Top Tips On Addressing And Changing The Priorities In Your Life

  • A great place to start is by watching this video I put together on why your own happiness should come first and foremost
  • If you watched the video you would find that if you are happy then everyone around you is happy too. But when life is getting you down then everyone else is affected by this
  • Concentrating on yourself is not selfish it just means that you are only doing things when it fits in with your lifestyle and adds meaningful value to your daily routine
  • Life should be a happy adventure but if you are giving too much and getting nothing in return then it might be that your priorities need to change to yourself
  • Some of us in life tend to get walked over if we don’t have a path that we are following. We get lost and everything becomes a muddle so sometimes we need to make a decision about changing our lives and I wrote an article about this here I Want To Change My Life Where Do I Start
  • Some priorities that you can look at changing are listed below if you want to change your life starting today
    • Start saying no if you don’t have the time or the inclination to do things. It is a really hard thing to do but sometimes No is the correct answer
    • Start saying yes more to things in your life that could add massive value as you will get more enjoyment out of life
    • Stop rushing around to do things. In order to change your priorities sometimes having an organized list of things to do will keep you on time and schedule
    • Prioritize the most important things and difficult things first and foremost. Putting these off will just cause you more stress so take a DO IT NOW attitude to getting things done
    • Prioritize your life and get yourself on track with goals and ideas on making life fun and exciting. Do more things, find more passions and get out there and create an adventure
    • Prioritize your kids and your partner first and foremost. They will be the most important things in your life and need your time and commitment so they should be the top of your list for everything
    • Prioritize your jobs and what needs doing and when. Not everything needs to be done at once and something will and can wait
    • Realize that time goes very quickly so don’t put off your ideas or dreams, make these a priority because they will change your life in miraculous ways
    • Become organized with everything you do through good time management practices. Although it sounds boring following lists you will feel more accomplished when you start ticking things of your list
    • If you are not good at prioritizing tasks take some pointers on youtube such as this great video
    • Think about what is important in your life and prioritize your finances around supporting them. Such as booking holidays, getting xmas gifts early, booking weekends away. By planning these you will make sure that you have the cash and the drive to make them happen

All that sounds easy doesn’t it? But prioritizing everything in order to change your life is essential. Otherwise we just seem to have a load of things to do all the time and never seem to get through it.

Organizing yourself is something that some people are great at however but others really struggle with. But if you have a list of everything you need to do and when it needs doing by you will get everything done.

Prioritizing will give you more time because you will become more efficient in everything that you need to do and that means you can do more great things.

If you need help with changing your life and living a greater level of happiness. Then check out my transformation program will you will learn lots of great things about life and how you can transform yours.

A part of that is prioritizing but in order to do that you need to have your head screwed on first and be fairly happy in life and put all the building blocks together in the first place.

So good luck in the future and I hope to see you soon, best wishes Scott

I Want To Change My Life Where Do I Start

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I was sitting around today and thinking about what I should write about and the question “I want to change my life – where do I start” popped into my mind. Mainly because it is a great question that we all ask ourselves from time to time in our lives.

You see life was meant to be fun, we are meant to be happy and live a fulfilled life but quite often or not we fall into a compromised lifestyle where things just do not make us happy.

So in the next section I will give you my top tips on where you can start to change your life beginning today. For me it was the fact that I had no choice too and I now live the life I have always dreamed of by following the change your life transformation program I put together you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Top Tips On Changing Your Life And Where You Can Start Today

  • The biggest thing you can do to start making changes in your life is to recognize the benefits that change will bring into your life
  • You need to think with clarity on what makes you happy in life and look to find more of those things to add value to your life. If you concentrate on all the things you don’t like the law of attraction will just bring more of that to you. So it is really important you concentrate on things that will make you happy
  • If you hate your job you have two options either make it better and I did a good video on making your job better here. Or you can dust of your cv and get yourself out there and look for a job that will make you happy. After all working is a big part of our lives and if you are not happy doing it then it will have a major impact on the rest of your life.
  • I also wrote another article on I don’t know what to do with my life that you might like and will give you some more ideas on where you should start to change your life
  • If you are in a relationship look at whether you are happy or not. Often we get caught in relationships that sometimes aren’t good for us and we feel like there is no way out. Love is a really important part of life and there is a soulmate out there for everyone. So make sure that you and your partner are loving life together and sharing its experiences
  • Try different things, often or not we don’t know where we want to go in life because we are driven to make decisions about our futures from such a young age. But I am 46 and I still don’t really know what I want in life I just want to be happy and live a fulfilled lifestyle for my kids and my girlfriend
  • You really need to wrap some goals or a plan around what you want and how you can get there. This will add weight to your thoughts and your feelings and will help you keep track on whether the changes you have made will truly bring happiness into your life or not
  • Don’t ever be scared off changing – sometimes it is necessary and it is better to try than regret not doing anything later. So what if we fail, so what if others bring us down. The more we do to make sure we live a fulfilled life the closer we get to achieving it
  • Have the courage and the belief that you can have or do anything you want in life, despite what other people say. I did a good video on your own happiness being the most important thing in life you can find here
  • No one is ever going to be able to change your life apart from you but others will help you on the way if they believe that you are doing everything you can to make positive changes.
  • Talk to new people and find new places to visit and friends to find. The World is full of opportunities with great people to share good times with and you never know who you will meet along the way either
  • Spread kindness, love and happiness everywhere you go. The Universe works like a magnet and if you treat other people well they will treat you well. If you are unhappy then you will stay unhappy. But if you choose to start changing your life in a positive way, you now control your own destiny and can be proud of the journey that you will be taking in life
  • Get on the internet and search for opportunities that might interest you. It is so easy nowadays to create a channel on youtube or instagram and get a following on a topic you love. Find a passion and share it with others and you will find that your life will change dramatically based on sharing fun and interesting things
  • Your background doesn’t dictate your future so do not let it hold you back. If you want to do something and you don’t think you can then learn how you can do it better and keep trying until you become good at something
  • Don’t quit trying to make changes in your life. Starting to make the changes is the first step of the journey and you will have some hard decisions and choices to make but if you stay positive everything will work out in your favor
  • Look at your life and see everything that you have done as a stepping stone to where you want to be. See that you are great and you deserve an amazing life and an amazing future. Envision yourself with the dream house, the dream life. What does it look like, can you touch and feel it. Once you create a passion in your mind of what you think your life should look like no matter how crazy it appears just go for it. Work out how you can get those things and start that journey today

All above sounds really easy right but from my experience helping others, there are some major hiccups to getting started in changing your life but that one big step is just starting in the first place.

Then on a daily basis measuring where you want to be against how far you have come. Often or not we are not happy but we can convince ourselves of anything and we can become happy if we notice what things bring happiness into our lives in the first place.

So if you are struggling to make that start or you just need a helping hand then check out my transformation program and I am there with you everyday to give you handy video tips on improving your life.

Good luck in your future journey and I hope everything works out for you best wishes Scott

I Don’t Know What To Do With My Life

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I asked myself the question “I don’t know what to do with my life” on several occasions now and came to the same conclusion – Life Is What You Make It – You just need to find out what you have to offer the World and then work out a plan of how to get there.

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You see finding out what you want to do in life is down to a couple of things – happiness and rewards. When you find something that you really enjoy doing in life and it gives you a passion then happiness follows.

Once you are in a state of happiness then life takes on a whole new meaning and opens up lots of doors for you. My life has changed a few times now which opened up the question of I don’t know what to do with my life because everything just fell apart.

You can read more about my story and how it can help you live a better life in my change your life transformation program you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

Alternatively if you are not sure what to do with your life follow some of my tips below for some inspiration

My top tips on finding what you should or could do with your life

  • You need to find out what motivates you. Being motivated about a particular thing can drive you to success. For me after losing 5 stone I love keeping fit and that can involve lots of different activities
  • Find out what really makes you smile – smiling is one of the most positive emotions you can have and if you are walking around with your head pointed down to the floor. You need to find something to lift it up
  • What is important to you – money, love, health, hobbies? Once you determine which of these aspects would add the most value to your life it is time to put a plan together on how you can achieve it
  • Most people are lost in life and don’t know what to do with their lives because boredom sets in. We sit in front of the TV and watch rubbish when we could be out making adventures, starting new passions and hobbies. Once you become motivated about a particular area of your life it can change the way feel dramatically
  • Do more of what makes you happy and less of what doesn’t make you happy. I wrote an article on I want do do something with my life you can find here too
  • Try lots of different things, we don’t all want to be a Doctor or Lawyer so try different jobs and see which one’s really float your boat then get qualifications in that area if you find that you love doing it
  • Spend time with family and friends having a laugh and discussing your future and theirs. A lot of people nowadays have lost the art of communication and it feels like you are on your own. If your family and friends don’t help then join a tribe of people on Twitter or Facebook that are doing similar things
  • Don’t waste time just force yourself to make changes. If you don’t know what to do with your life then the last thing you want to do is just there and become unhappy about it
  • Go places meet different people and just have an adventure and some fun. Not everything has to cost money so don’t make that your excuse along the way

I do know that the above all sounds very easy when you are unhappy in life but the only person that can change things is you. No one is going to give you a magic pill or hand you a million pounds.

Plus when you see life as a challenge things become exciting because you have something to look forward to all the time.

If you need a little help along the way then join my transformation program where I will help you everyday with a series of videos to improve your life and your lifestyle and you can start straight away.

So I wish you all the very best in your future search for finding happiness in your life best wishes Scott

I Want To Do Something With My Life

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How many times have you said to yourself “I want to do something” I’m not quite sure what it is but I am bored and need something exciting in my life? It might just be that you want to do something different, something exciting or just a casual change to your life.

Read on to find out my tips on how I changed my life in my transformation program you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk and how they can help you do something new too.

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My Top Tips On How To Do Something With Your Life

  • Stop dreaming and start doing. If you really want to do something with your life then you need to be put your dreams into action
  • Stop making excuses – you cannot change your life and find something different and exciting if you keep saying “i’ll do it when I am less busy or I have more money
  • Try lots of different things, when I said I want to do something different I did all sorts like – skydiving, kayaking, walking, gym, swimming, yoga until I found that something that really made me want to get out of bed in the morning
  • Don’t give up. You might not be good at whatever it is you choose to do at first but if you enjoy it you will put more time into making yourself really good at it. There is nothing better than to find a passion you look forward to doing everyday, every week or however often you do it
  • Find true love in your life. It may sound silly but having a partner that supports you in making changes in your life is paramount to its success. You can talk about it and they can support you through the journey
  • Meet new people and get the excitement in your life going in a group atmosphere. There is nothing better either than sharing your passion with others and learning from each other at each and every opportunity
  • I wrote an article on living a joyous life you can check out here too https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk/blog/change/living-a-joyous-life-and-being-happy/
  • When you realize that life is what you make it and you have to force yourself to wake up in the morning in a good mood and with a plan for your life. Then your life can change dramatically. You can watch a video I did here.
  • Share your ideas and suggestions with your friends and family but don’t let them put you off. If you really want to do something exciting or change something just go with your gut and do it. People will always try and hold you back and sometimes you just need to go for it
  • Think of all the things that would make you happy and put a smile on your face. There are so many people who are just bored in life and not going anywhere. If you are going to do something do it now and regret it later if needed
  • See everything as an exciting challenge in doing different things as it will motivate you in all parts of your life moving forward. For instance if you have a great life at home you will have a great life at work because your attitude will adjust to only looking forward to the things that will ultimately make you happy
  • Know that for everyday you put off doing something new that you are one step further away from happiness. Sometimes we just need to force ourselves to act on our gut and go damn I am gonna do this and launch ourselves into it

I want to do something new all the time because it stops your life from getting stale. There is nothing worse than just sitting on the settee watching life go by and drinking wine.

All that happens is our lives become null and void with no excitement and we lose our drive to live a fulfilled life and that is no fun what so ever

The law of attraction is an amazing way of changing your lifestyle and your attitude and if you need a little help with improving your life. Then join my transformation program where I will help you everyday to do something different with your life and excel in any area you choose to.

Life is quite simple when we grasp that the basics of just enjoying life for what it is and spreading happiness and love brings the greatest rewards. Feeling good about ourselves and testing ourselves and pushing ourselves is just part of that journey.

So good luck in finding something different to do in your life and I wish you all the very best in your journey to get there

Best wishes Scott

Living A Joyous Life And Being Happy

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So today’s question is about living a joyous life and being happy. Is it achievable? Of course it is if you follow the tips given below and implement them in your life too.

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Sometimes in life being joyous is a lifestyle and one that can be accomplished when we understand how life works and turn every experience into a positive one. 

Sounds easy doesn’t it but believe me I have searched high and low in life over my 46 years of existence to look for happiness and have finally found it. So have a gander over my tips below and see if they help you live a joyous life too.

My top tips on living a joyous lifestyle

  • Most of our unhappiness in life comes from a lack of communication. One thing I have learnt in life is that when you say something people can take it in a completely different way to the way you explained it. If you cannot talk openly then those differences in thought processes can make a massive impact on your life. So it is often a great idea if you are discussing serious matters with anyone that you go over the key points so everyone comes away with a common understanding of the conversation in hand
  • Relationships need to be nurtured every single day with your partner. I have had two ex wives and a World of pain surrounding that and what I found was you cannot live your life for someone else. They have to want to be part of your life and you have to want to be part of theirs. If you haven’t ever felt true love where you just look at your partner and think OMG you are amazing in everyway and I just cannot stand being away from you. Then you have to look for it and find it. There is no other joyous thing in life than being truly, madly and deeply in life with someone
  • We quite often get caught up in our lives as being unhappy because we haven’t achieved our goals, or life gets boring and tedious. We have thoughts that go around in our heads convincing ourselves we are not happy. The more we convince our conscious minds of something the more we have to try and reverse those thoughts at a later date when happy things come along. I did a video on this as part of the change your life transformation program you can find here 
  • Living a joyous life should consist of being kind to others and spreading love everywhere you go. Putting a smile on your face and enjoying the World around you. People are amazing when you take the time out to say Hi and strike a conversation with them. I did another video about making other people smile here
  • Looking back at your past and seeing it as an education rather than a regret is a great way to understand that life is about experiences. Good or bad everything is there to educate us in the system of life and make us better people. Never be bitter and never live with regrets, you can find a great video here on this subject
  • Always wake up in the morning in a good mood, starting your day with a smile and ready for the day will set you up throughout your busy day
  • Stop rushing around and take things calmly. Rushing around to meet deadlines, traffic, dropping kids of at school will just stress you out. Living a joyous life therefore becomes difficult when all you are worrying about is getting to places on time
  • Have fun with things. Everything you do whether it is boring or not should be fun, put some music on or get others involved so you can chat and have a laugh while you are doing it. Laughing is one of the greatest gifts in life that will raise your spirit and keep you positive in every way
  • Nothing is really important enough to worry about things. Take time to think about your problems and deal with them with clarity in mind. If you make decisions based on your emotions you will quite often just add more stress to your life
  • Organize get togethers with friends and family. Share moments of happiness. Don’t make excuses on this one as we all say we should meet up more and never do it. Family and friends and our integration with them will always bring joy into your life because you are sharing happy times together
  • Have a plan for life. If you are not happy and want to live a joyful life you need to look at what will make you happy. You might not get the answer straight away so try different things and see whether they put a smile on your face or not
  • If you are suffering from anxiety and depression this is probably down to being unhappy. Believe me when you find your happy place this slowly goes away. It is just a process of replacing those horrible thoughts with one’s that are amazing instead. So let me give you an example. I was destroyed when my last wife left me and for days I broke down wondering how I was going to cope with my daughter being taken away from me. Now everyday I live life to the full, I lost 5 stone and replaced all my thoughts with my plans on building a future. I now have no space in my mind for horrible thoughts as I am too busy implementing my thoughts and learning from the experience. Also because I dealt with the divorce in the correct way my ex is happy and so is my daughter and I get to see her and involve her whenever I want to

I know the above can sound easy and it takes time to change your attitude from being unhappy to living a joyous lifestyle. Which is why I put a 60 day change your life transformation program you can find here  together

It is a daily video I send out that coaches you through how to make the changes necessary in your life to live a joyous future. I really want you to live a happy lifestyle because I enjoy seeing people smile so if you haven’t signed up yet please do you will enjoy it. 

Wishing you all the best in living a joyous lifestyle Scott

How Can I Transform My Life Today

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The question of how can I transform my life has been asked a few times in my own mind over the years and I thought I would put some pointers together on how you can transform your life too. 

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The image above really does represent our choices in life. When our minds are full of a haze and craziness we often need to make choices in transforming our lives for the better and rising above the fog. 

For me my life has changed numerous times in that I have had to leave previous lives behind in order to find the life that I deserve and am happy with. So my tips below are based on the transformation program I put together on changing your life you can find here and I hope they help you too.

My top tips on transforming your life for the better

  • Sometimes we get stuck in life because we accept that what we have is all that we are going to get. Life is okay but it is not really going anywhere and we don’t feel fulfilled. But if you knew by making small changes in your life it would transform really quickly would you be willing to make them? Recognizing that you can do better is the first step up on the ladder
  • Pick something in your life you would like to transform first and foremost. I had been working away eating junk and drinking too much beer when my wife left and decided to leave me. So the first thing on my transformation journey was to get fitter and healthier and I did this in just 5 short months. You can find out more about how I lost 5 stone and feel great from it in this video
  • Once you make one dedicated and small change it is easier to make others too. For instance I vowed that I would never put myself in a position of unhappiness ever again. That I wouldn’t compromise in life and that I would try and help others also to cope with these types of issues. By spreading kindness and love to others has really helped to transform my life into one that is just amazing in every way
  • We can do ourselves harm sometimes by not believing that we are worth more than we are. We spend time and give love to people that truly don’t appreciate it. Time with people that will never be happy because they are a victim to their circumstances. You have to rise above all of this and find your true self again and get back your own happiness. I wrote another article about happiness you can find here
  • You need to transform your life from time to time otherwise it just gets boring and you feel unfulfilled in life. Change is good and also necessary and it can be scary but so are roller coasters and people still go on them
  • Don’t ever be scared to fail, the worse thing that can happen is you make an idiot of yourself and so what. Those people that laugh are not the people you want to be associating yourself with anyway. Only ever surround yourself with like minded people if you truly want to transform your life for the better
  • Make a list of things that you would like to transform. This will allow you to work through it and tick things off, change it, add to it or take stuff away. But this in its own right will make you accountable for at least taking the first few steps you need to transform your life
  • Life is meant to be fun and you are meant to be happy. Don’t let other people steal your happiness. You are the most important person in your life and you need to run it for yourself
  • Try new things and new experiences until you find something that really floats your boat and you enjoy doing over and over again
  • Change your image – image is really important when you look in the mirror and think damn I look amazing today
  • Age is not important what you give to the World is and if you give kindness and love you will receive it back with abundance
  • Don’t transform your life with material things. These will not make you happy they will just delay the feelings that you need to change by distracting you for a while
  • Learn to love yourself again and who you are and what you have to contribute to the World. Find a new tribe and friends on twitter so you are having conversations with like minded people who get you 
  • Set yourself some dates that you want things to transform by. Doing this will allow you stay on track
  • Go all out with a belief mindset that you can achieve anything you want in life. You just have to have the tenacity and balls to grab life for what it is
  • Money is not a definition of happiness. Take this out from your mindset and concentrate on transforming things in life that have a true meaning or value to it then the money will follow
  • Find a job that you enjoy. We spend most of our times in life working so it is important not to be in a job that you hate. Moving jobs often is a good thing and expands your horizons, skills and will stop you getting bored
  • Overcome your boredom by always having a plan of where you want to be in life and where you want to go. This will keep your mind active thinking about all the glorious things you are going to achieve
  • Don’t listen to nay sayers they will only be jealous that they haven’t made the step to transforming their lives either 
  • Rekindle your relationships – often or not transforming small things in your relationships can bring back an abundance of love and fun to things

Yes the above sounds easy when you are trapped in a life that you hate and you just want it to change and quickly. If you leave it however your sadness will just continue and it is not until you try to change things and see the results that you will realize it was all worth it. 

If you are struggling to transform your life think about jumping on my 60 day program where I am with you every step of the way to help. Transforming your life can be done in as little as a second if you just make the conscious decision to change it. 

Wishing you the best of luck in your new ventures Scott

Learning To Be Happy With Yourself

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My thought for the day today was about learning to be happy with yourself. We can all achieve happiness in life, we just have to follow a few steps to make sure that our lives are full of love and kindness in order to get there. 

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If you follow this blog you will know that I went through my own transformation in turning my life around into a happy one and I also put a transformation program together so you can change your life too. 

It is a 60 day program that helps you connect your body to your thoughts in order to find happiness in life moving forward. So if you haven’t checked it out yet give it a whirl I am sure you will enjoy it. 

In the meantime however here are my top tips on turning your life into a happy one

My Top Tips To Live A Happy Lifestyle

  • In order to find any sort of happiness in life we have to first understand the way our mind works. In that everything we tell the subconscious mind it stores and pulls that information back when you need it next. So if you tell yourself you are not happy everyday then your mind will believe it. Therefore the next time you try and tell yourself you are happy your mind tells you that you are not because you are consistently telling it you are not happy. Once you understand that feeding your mind with healthy and positive thoughts is the way to go then your life will change forever. I did a video about this subject you can find here
  • Sometimes we just need clarity in our thoughts, trying to get through everyday life can be a struggle when your mind is full of sorts of garbage. Just like taking the rubbish out to be emptied every week is just like dumping the garbage in your mind too. Empty it and clearly think about everything in your life from a relaxed point of view
  • Learning to be happy with yourself means that you should not listen to what others say about you. Their opinion of you doesn’t matter because they probably don’t know you well enough in the first place to come to this decision. It is hard to brush off people’s comments but if you take them constructively and don’t get hurt you can sometimes use this feedback to become a better you. I did another interesting video on this topic you can find by clicking here
  • Being happy is a lifestyle choice, we can all feel down and we can all feel sorry for ourselves as that is a completely natural state of mind to be in sometimes. But it is only us that can bring ourselves back to the position of seeing life as what it is. Our lives should be one filled with love and kindness, laughter and sharing our thoughts with those we respect and can guide us
  • Never settle for second best. If someone in your life is not supporting you or nurturing you to become a better you then get rid of them. It doesn’t matter how close they are this type of parasitic behaviour will just keep you in the dark for longer
  • Believe that life can be better – look at it and see what brings happiness to your life and do more of it
  • Stop making excuses and just get out there and try new things, meet new people, try new hobbies, do anything that keeps your mind active and you have something to look forward to
  • Look at yourself in the mirror and smile. We are all special in our own way and no one should take this away from us. Once you find your special gift in life then you keep doing it and doing it until your thoughts are always on happy things
  • Retraining your mind in the way you think about things is paramount. Our education has a lot to do with the way we think from the way we are schooled to the way our friends and family bring us up. I did another interesting video you can find by following this link
  • Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and personality makes a person look amazing in every way. So make your personality shine above all others and let people see the true beauty in you
  • Try and stay positive where you can and look back at the past as a learning curve. We all do things wrong in life, we are all wronged in life at times but your past should not dictate your happiness for the future. I wrote an article on how to be happy again here
  • Sometimes we just have to pluck up the guts and courage to get out there and change our lives. If we really want to learn how to be happy the first step is trying otherwise you will just sit there complaining you hate life
  • We live in an amazing connected World nowadays, find your tribe and likes on Twitter and surround yourself with people who think like you do. Quite often we surround ourselves with people with different viewpoints and different aspects in life. This is wrong we need to talk about our interests, our goals, our passions with like minded people. Once you do this your conversations and happiness will flow and it will add massive value to your life

I know it easy to say all of the above, but your journey needs to start now. Putting things off will just take happiness further away from you. My program is meant to be fun and I take this walk with you because I understand how difficult it is learning to be happy in life again. 

You are not alone though and like I said above when you realize there are others out there, that think like you, want to be with you and share your thoughts and visions. Then life takes on a whole new meaning. 

So if you haven’t joined the program yet give it a shot and make a promise to yourself that you will learn to be happy again. 

Wishing you all the very best in your future Scott

How Can I Be Happy Again

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Darn it how can I be happy again is the question I asked myself over and over again throughout the time in my life but I am happy today that this question no longer comes into my daily thoughts. 

There are lots of reasons that we can become unhappy in life – in mine it was by dedicating my life to two ex wives that didn’t really appreciate everything you did for them and decided to end the relationship and move out with my children who I adored that had the biggest impact on my life. 

Now at times when you look back on life everything does happen for a reason and even though bitterness and unhappiness does surround you from time to time it is often better to push those feelings back to where they belong. 

How Can I be Happy Again
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Being unhappy is sometimes a state of mind that we can convince ourselves is the position that we are in and we cannot do anything about it. When you look at your life in a pragmatic sort of way however and believe that you deserve more. 

That you really feel that everything you have been delivered in life so far is just a stepping stone to finding happiness then your viewpoints change dramatically. For me it was making sure that when my second wife left that I didn’t make any of the same mistakes again and that this time in life I would make sure that I became happy. 

So here are my top tips on how you can make yourself happy again if you are in a place you don’t want to be in 

  • Don’t let the past dictate your future. Just because bad things have happened, people have rejected you, you have failed at something or just everything hasn’t worked out for you yet. This does not mean that things are not going to change for the future. 
  • If you adopt a positive approach to your life then it can change dramatically. For me I went from being on my own and taking care of myself to meeting the women of dreams and being eternally grateful for life in just a short 3 mth period. Now 3 mths is not long to go from having nothing having everything. You can find out more about this in the transformation program on changing your life forever you can find here https://changeyourlifeforever.co.uk
  • Believe that you can be happy and you will. My second wife and I just made each other unhappy and for now other reason that just normal every day stresses. But my new partner and I have learnt these lessons and support each other and communicate through thick and thin and the changes in life that this has brought on have been nothing short of amazing
  • If you don’t try to seek happiness you will never find it. I wrote an article on finding happiness that you can find here for more information 
  • I also did a video on why finding happiness needs to come from inside of you that you can check out here However if your unhappiness is leading to mental health issues then you should really get yourself checked out first and foremost
  • Happiness is found through sharing love, laughter and kindness and once we surround ourselves with people, jobs, atmosphere etc then our lives become more fulfilled. I have taught myself in life now that I don’t do anything for anyone unless they are at least trying to help themselves first and foremost
  • Change things in your life that you are not happy with. The longer you leave your unhappiness the harder it is to get rid of. We all have a tendency to put up with things that we shouldn’t but your everyday well being is extremely important and you need to have fun and things to look forward to in life
  • I wish there was a magic pill like you to create happiness but unfortunately there isn’t. All we can do is fill most of what we do with things that cause us to become happy, like lots of hugs from our loved one’s, laughing and generally seeing the fun things and not concentrating on the bad things in life
  • Dealing with our thoughts is probably one of the hardest things to do. Especially when we tell ourselves consistently that we are not happy. Our brains have a way of holding onto negative emotions and you can convince yourself of anything if you are not careful. Saying things like yes I maybe unhappy but if I do X to change it that feeling will go away is better than just saying I am unhappy and not doing anything about it
  • Change is really difficult in our lives but also a very difficult thing to implement when you are happy and stuck in your current routine. Sometimes however when you make changes because you are unhappy those small changes can lead to great things if only you can initiate the change in the first place

Everything above sounds easy doesn’t it and I know it isn’t because recognizing why you are unhappy and turning your life around is something that is not easy to implement otherwise we would all be running around with a smile on our faces. 

There are only a few things that you can do in life – choose to stay unhappy or do something about it. There is no easy way to say this but it is true. My life has only ever changed when I have actively looked to change it for the better. 

When you choose to have a plan in life and take all the knocks as a learning curve on the way to reaching your destination. Life does become easier because you look at it in a different way. You are not so critical of yourself and the surroundings but just do consciously believe that life does have its ups and downs and you have to ride the waves sometimes to get back to the beach.

If you need help in order to find happiness then do check out my transformation program as I am with you everyday to help you make changes in your life. Sometimes we just need a little hand to get us to where we need to be but if you are unhappy you do need to change something so go and check it out today. 

Wishing you all the very best in the future Scott

 

Is It Possible To Change Your Life In 30 Days

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I thought I would set myself a challenge today and write about whether it is truly possible to change your life in 30 days. Well what if I said it can take 30 seconds to change your life what would you think about that?

To be fair as we live life and the experiences we go through you realize with age that most of us never do anything to change our own happiness until it is too late.

We moan and complain that we want to change but grasping the concept of actually changing it is the hardest piece. So let me tell you my story quickly and see if you can understand that you can can change your life in 30 days or 30 seconds as it is completely up to you. 

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If you can imagine this yourself – you are working away all week doing 70 hours under an extreme amount of pressure with 45 people working for you.

You have 5 hours train journey to get home but when you do you buy flowers for your wife to say thank you for looking after your daughter whilst you were away. 

You cook the tea and bath your daughter and put her to bed as she loves her daddy and has missed him so much. Then one day the pressure at work gets so much after 18mths of running flat out you go to the Doctors and he says to take a few weeks off to rest. 

Going home you let your wife know and then she turns around and says she doesn’t love you anymore even though you are a great husband and father she would rather live on her own. 

Yup it takes things like this that make you change your life in a split second because you are forced too. Now I was not particularly happily married at the time and I knew things could be better but there was no talking this through with my wife so I had to change my life and in those split seconds of the realization kicking in I did the following things. 

My top tips on how I changed my life dramatically and quickly

  • I put a plan together on changing my life and created a program that I could follow to achieve everything I needed too. You can join the program too here if you need help to change your life
  • I was overweight at the time and decided that I needed to get fit again and started walking everyday to get my thoughts straight amongst other things. I lost 5 stone in 3mths and you can see more in this video here 
  • I made a vow to myself that I would never ever compromise in life again and that I would only accept the best things that life had to offer. I wrote an article about being happy here 
  • When you realize that your life is open to anything that you want and there is no one to hold you back. The feeling becomes quite liberating really as you are free to be anyone you want to be and on your own terms
  • If you want to change your life then you really need to look at it from the outside in and determine whether or not you are ready to make the decision and go for it. If your heart isn’t into you will you only start off badly and probably fail to implement the changes you need
  • You might find that you really don’t know what you need to change to make yourself happy again. This is pretty common but if you are just plan bored of life now is the time to take action in your life and get out there and just what options are available to you
  • It is easy to think the grass is greener on the other side too but often or not small changes in your existing life can bring massive results, like reigniting your relationships, finding a new hobby, going out more, reading and exercise. If you want to change your life then just try some new things and break the boredom 
  • Believe that you are worthy of great things. All of us have a special skill in life it is just finding it and using it to the greatest ability is the hard thing. Once you find something you enjoy and are really good at it is amazing how quickly your life can change for the better
  • The biggest decision you can make is just getting on with deciding to DO IT NOW – stop the excuses, recognize you need to change and just sticking a boot up your bum and getting on with it. 
  • Stop convincing yourself that life is crap and concentrate on how to make it better. You don’t need money to make things better in life as most of the rewarding things in life are FREE
  • Be in control of your own destiny make your own decisions and be guided by your own judgement and make wishes to the Universe of what you want and when you want it by

I know some of the above does sound easy but I know it is not. When you do make a conscious effort however to change your life and stick to the changes you can do it really quickly. The hard part is just saying I need to lose weight and then getting out there and walking for 20 minutes a day.

Once you start forming new habits it takes around 60 days to change bad habits into new one’s. Then when you build a routine around your new habits, whether that is smiling in the morning, being happy, changing things in your life everything will become easier. 

So just give it a whirl and if you need help getting there join my transformation program and I will help you everyday for 60 days to get to where you want to be. 

Have a good one and wishing you all the very best for the future Scott

How Do I Change My Life For The Better

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How do I change my life for the better is a question I ask myself regularly because after everything I have been through in life I have realized that life should be fun and exciting. The only thing holding us back is ourselves and those crazy thoughts that stop us finding happiness in the first place. 

So I am going to try and help you see how I changed my life for the better and hopefully how it can help you change yours too in the tips below. 

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My top tips on changing your life for the better starting today

  • You have to stop the noise in your head and concentrate on one thing at a time. If everything seems to be a problem then you need to just sort each little thing out individually rather than seeing everything as the problem
  • Communication is key with everything. If you are not happy in your relationships, job, life etc. Then you need to talk to the people around you and not sit in silence. Most people will help if they understand where you are coming from, but they don’t have a crystal ball to recognize your unhappiness. Also talking might reveal that what you are unhappy with actually isn’t the problem at all
  • Sometimes you just have to sit down and look at your life and then dream and wish for the things that you want to change. Envision it in front of your eyes. I did an interesting  video on this topic you can find here
  • Change can be fun if you are in control of it. To look at your life and put a plan together and say I am going to change my image – move house – travel around the World and then tick these items off when you do them is rewarding. I wrote an article on not being happy in life you can find here for more details 
  • Sometimes we tell ourselves things over and over and over again until we believe it. Those things might have just been a one occasion thing but the mind is a powerful thing and only does what you consistently tell it too. Watch this video for more information 
  • If you can see the positives in life then you are halfway there. It is hard sometimes to look at negative things in a positive way. But if you look back on past events life is telling you that you either didn’t need it, it wasn’t good enough for you and that it is going to give you better if you stay on track. Read more on positivity here 
  • Live your life without regrets is the best way forward. We are allowed to make mistakes, we are allowed to fail, we are allowed to make changes in our lives, we are allowed to be free, to be ourselves and other peoples opinions do not matter. 
  • Never be too hard on yourself. Sometimes we punish ourselves for no reason, we blame ourselves for things that happen that are outside of our control. Everything apart from the way you think and feel is outside of your control. So be happy in you, make wise decisions, be truthful, honest and kind. Spread love and you will never have a reason to question yourself again in the future. There’s a funny video on spreading love here 
  • Which brings us onto the next topic. Have fun with life, surround yourself with laughter. Happiness is a feeling you are in control off and you may want to change your life but that doesn’t mean you cannot enjoy the ride. Spread your wings put a smile on your face and be nice to everyone you meet
  • Love is a massive contributor to happiness and giving hugs to loved ones and even strangers can fill you with joy and happiness. This is important because when you make changes in your life you want them to be the right ones and you can only think straight when you are happy
  • Thinking about changing your life when you are in a negative frame of mind will only send you down the wrong path. This is because you are paying attention to what you don’t want instead of what you do want. Mastering this one thing can change your life dramatically

I know that everything above sounds simple but changing your attitude can change the way you think about your life. After my 2 wives left me I have had an extreme turn around in life, I have been unlucky in love twice but the positives are that I have three beautiful children that I adore and they adore me. 

I was forced to make changes in my life otherwise I would have just gone down hill. This is the reason why I wrote my change your life forever transformation program that you can find here. Go and sign up and I will help you everyday achieve your goals and change your life because remember you are worth it, you just have to make a conscious effort to start making changes now. 

Wishing you all the best through your journey in life Scott

Not Happy With Life Try This ☺

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If you are not happy with Life then you probably need to think about making some changes. Life should be amazing and life should be fun so let’s see if we can get you on the right path to finding happiness in your life below

Sometimes it is the little things in life that really count to making us happy but when we get caught in a whirlwind of emotions it is difficult to see the wood through the trees.

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Life can be confusing and it the pathways we take can lead to a World of unhappiness if we are not careful. I spent ten years giving my wife everything in life only to realize when she left that it was all for nothing. 

You cannot hold onto the past however if you want to stay happy in the future and there is always a positive spin on bad things happening when you look back on them in a positive light. 

So how can my wife leaving me be a positive thing. Well I think we all live a compromised lifestyle in some ways. Some of us giving to others and not expecting anything back, others being selfish and doing their own thing. We are all individual however and have the right to live our life the way that we want to. 

My wife leaving led me to make major changes to my life that I otherwise wouldn’t have done if she was with me and the impact has been enormous. I can now look back and say that I am not happy with life is a thing of the past. 

So here are some of my tips on turning your life around too

  • Check out my transformation program for daily help in seeking your own happiness hopefully you will like it. Click here
  • Look inside and try and determine why you are not happy. If it is everything in your life you will need to break this down a little bit so you can change one small part at a time
  • Close your eyes and get some clarity in your thoughts about what would make you happy. If they are things at home then speak about them to your nearest and dearest and try to change them. Often we hold things in when all we need to do is speak to the person that is doing our head in and tell them why. If you hold onto it though you can’t expect them to have a crystal ball and change for you
  • Make sure you give yourself plenty of time every single day for you to gather your thoughts and process them properly. Often we think things are rubbish because we process our thoughts when we are stressed or busy. Therefore everything seems like a nightmare
  • Have a plan of what you would like your future to look like. Do you want a big house, a nice car, a beautiful family. Then work out how you are going to get them. Believe me the universe has a way of giving you what you want if you tell it exactly what it is you want in the first place. 
  • If you are not happy in your job then try and make it better somehow. I did a video on this you can find here
  • Try and do some fun things with friends and family. It is so easy to just go to work / school or whatever then come in and switch the television on. There is a big World out there full of happiness and fun you just have to go out there and involve yourself in it
  • Despite what anyone says you were meant to be great. You were meant to have a great life and enjoy it. It may not seem like that sometimes but by making some changes to your beliefs and being a little selfish and concentrating on you. You can find things that will make you happy
  • Stop making excuses about changing your life in order to be happy. So many times we say I want to do this but it will have to wait until I get more money. I would love to do this but I can’t I won’t be any good at it. 
  • Learn to say yes to things that matter more and no to things that do not make you happy. Saying no is a really hard thing to do sometimes but very necessary if it doesn’t make you smile
  • The best things in life are free and never forget that. Laughter with friends and family, hugs, sharing love, dreams and plans. A hug costs nothing and you can find anyone to hug if you need one
  • Dream and dream big, all of us start with nothing in life, most of us are educated in the same way and the only difference between successful people or not is their ability to see the wood through the trees and go and get what they want
  • Know that things will change and you will be happy. You will find your happy place. Never compromise if something is just okay then it doesn’t hold a place in your life. Everything should want to make you get up out of bed in the morning ready for a great adventure
  • The only adventures you will have in life are the one’s that you have the guts to go and get. Don’t hold yourself back through fear. Get out there and do as many things as you can

So if you are not happy with life it is time to change it. If you haven’t signed up for my transformation program yet give it a whirl. I am with you everyday to help you make small changes like I made mine. 

Sometimes all we need is a little encouragement and the knowing that everything will work out and I am there everyday in a short video to help you. 

Wishing you all the very best in your future Scott

Making Changes In Your Life Leads To Happiness 🌞

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Making changes in your life is sometimes needed and necessary in order to find happiness. I found my happiness will you find yours with my tips below?

If you look at your life and say “Am I truly Happy” this might reveal whether or not you do need a change. It is easy to get stuck in the whirlwinds of life and say you do but to actually make the change is the hard part. So I will give you some examples below on why making changes in your life can lead to happiness. 

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My life changed dramatically a few times when it fell apart after my first marriage and then my second too. Losing everything along the way makes you take a deep breath and reassess your situation, especially when none of it was your own true fault. I videod my progress and put a 60 day transformation program together also so that it may help you. You can find it here 

Once you do decide however that you need to change your life the World opens up to new opportunities you never thought were possible. So let’s dive into some tips below. 

My tips on changing your life for the better and finding happiness

  • Don’t wait to become so unhappy in your life that change is forced upon you. There is nothing worse than losing everything and trying to pull yourself back up from the gutter
  • Address the problems in your life quickly and make sure that the solution brings you the happiness you are looking for
  • Don’t put things off. Life gets so much more exciting when you make quick decisions. Even if they never come of or you make a mistake, everything can be rectified for the better later on if you want to change your life
  • Be open and honest in all your communications. We are all guilty of holding our true feelings back and then sitting back and making ourselves unhappy as a result of what is going on
  • If stress and anxiety are a problem then you need to address this and it might just be that you do need a change in lifestyle in order to push through it
  • Life is meant to be enjoyed and you are meant to be happy. I did a video on this you can find here Living a mediocre lifestyle will just lead you to think you are worth more but never finding it
  • Think happy thoughts as much as you can as it is important to look at times when you were happy and bring those memories activities back into your life 
  • Embrace life in everything you do – you may not be happy today but your past does not determine your future and if you want to make changes and implement them as planned. You will find that your life can take a dramatic swing in the right direction and quickly
  • Work out was is making you feel unhappy and set out to change it as quickly as you can. Sometimes we just need to believe in ourselves and push on through and it can be real fun having a plan as it takes your mind of all the other stresses and strains we deal with in life
  • Reignite your relationships – beauty is in the eye of the beholder and people only turn ugly when their personality traits change. Look at your partner and remember the times when you were truly happy in life and bring those activities back again
  • If you are single then don’t despair there is someone out there waiting for you. I spent time in two bad marriages only to find the lady I had been looking for all my life and I couldn’t be happier now. The Universe has a way of giving you what you want when you ask for it in the right way and with vigor in your thoughts
  • Do fun things – remember when you were a child and finding and looking at things for the first time? The World is only boring when you don’t look at the beauty around you and don’t get excited about the small things in life anymore
  • It is easy to forget how great life can be when we are trapped in a worm hole and it never seems to end. Unfortunately there are no magic pills for this you just need to make it happen
  • Change can be painful but it doesn’t need to be when you look at the changes as being positive and adding value to your life once they become realized
  • What would you really like to do in life? Who would you really like to be? There is no point pretending in life that you are someone else. True happiness will only come when you are surrounded by people who love and support you for who you truly are
  • Reassess your values in life. Things change overtime and some of the things you may have wanted in your life previously may not be relevant. So get rid of them and replace them with things that will ultimately make you happy again

So I know the above sounds easy and it isn’t I have been there and it is hard. But if you follow my transformation program I am with you all the way. All you have to do is follow the videos daily and I will add some inspiration and support in helping you to make changes in your life. 

So if you haven’t already signed up give it a whirl you have nothing to lose. 

Wishing you all the best in your journey in life Scott

My Happy Thoughts About Life

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I was sitting in my conservatory today thinking about my happy thoughts about life and how they might also be able to help you find happiness in your life. 

You see one day I came home from work stressed as a donkey at a beach party and my wife explained she didn’t want me anymore. Later on moving out with my 5 year old daughter I felt like my life had come to a dramatic end suddenly. 

Happy thoughts about life

No discussions, no talks, just a decision that would not only impact her but my daughter and I for the rest of our lives. Now there was only one of two things I could do – go down into a furnace of hell and depression or raise from the ashes and blow the World away with my happiness. 

I chose the latter and also put together a 60 day transformation program that will also help you gain the ultimate happiness by following my tips. You can find out more about it by clicking here 

But rising from the Ashes takes some work I can tell you but below are my top tips on living a happy lifestyle that will never change.

My top tips on having happy thoughts about life

  • The first thing I did when my wife moved out was buy enormous canvasses of everything I wanted to remind myself of being happy. They consisted off
    • My kids so I could smile at them all the time and say goodnight and good morning to them even if I couldn’t be there with them
    • A graffiti canvas of “All you need is Love”
    • A graffiti canvas of “Keep Smiling”
    • A graffiti canvas of “Stay Happy”
    • A graffiti canvas of “Music is Life”
  • Now the above may not seem much – but when you wake up in the morning and go to bed at night it is really important that you surround yourself with happy thoughts and feelings
  • Happiness really is a choice. Even though I lost everything I found that just putting a smile on my face in the morning did me the world of good. Force yourself to jump out of bed in the morning and make yourself feel and look good no matter the weather. You can find some good morning and daily rituals in my video here
  • Walk out your door with a smile on your face – say Hi to people you don’t know, be kind to people and help others along your way. Every spread of kindness you give aids your own happiness. There is an article here you can read
  • Have a plan in life. When you are always moving forward trying to achieve your goals in life, then you don’t have time for all the other crap that brings you down. Fill your head with dreams of happiness and what will bring you the ultimate lifestyle 
  • Spend time with your kids if you have them. Sit with them share time with them and let them know they are the most important thing in your life. The jobs can all wait. You can watch this video here about getting your kids to respect you 
  • Spend time on your own thinking about your life and see what happy thoughts pop into your mind. Sometimes in life we spend more time thinking about the bad things instead of laughing at all the good times. We take millions of pictures but never look back at them, always record and remember good times for the future
  • Share great times with your partner, reignite the love that you have all the time by sending lovely little messages, love letters off your dates. Being in love with someone who adores you brings the most happiness in life it is unbelieveable and true love is just amazing
  • Get out in the outdoors and enjoy yourself, do fun things, organize events with your friends. Sometimes we get lost in life with our daily routines and forget that happiness and enjoyment is just around the corner but it doesn’t come unless we do something about it
  • Look at life as being an opportunity, when we embrace our pasts as being lessons and opportunities for growth. It allows you to look back on any past situation and be happy for the results you have now not what you didn’t have then
  • Whack some comedies on or go out to some shows and have a blast. Laughter brings happiness and you should surround yourself with it at every opportunity
  • When you get older there is a true saying that life goes to quickly and until you get old you really don’t realize how true that is. So don’t let life pass you by, get out there be you, do amazing things and above all else keep smiling

As part of my new lifestyle I lost 5 stone and feel great. I haven’t let my past dictate my future but have just learned to love unconditionally without expectations. We all get hurt in life by others, but we cannot blame them for making their own choices and if that is not being with us then so be it. 

All of that does not make us bad people it just means we are giving our gifts of happiness and love to the wrong people and in order to create happy thoughts we have to find the right people instead. 

If you like what I have written here you will like the transformation program so if you haven’t signed up give it a whirl and we can have a laugh along the way to making your life also full of happy thoughts in the future too. 

Be good, best wishes for the future Scott