If you are not happy with Life then you probably need to think about making some changes. Life should be amazing and life should be fun so let’s see if we can get you on the right path to finding happiness in your life below
Sometimes it is the little things in life that really count to making us happy but when we get caught in a whirlwind of emotions it is difficult to see the wood through the trees.
Life can be confusing and it the pathways we take can lead to a World of unhappiness if we are not careful. I spent ten years giving my wife everything in life only to realize when she left that it was all for nothing.
You cannot hold onto the past however if you want to stay happy in the future and there is always a positive spin on bad things happening when you look back on them in a positive light.
So how can my wife leaving me be a positive thing. Well I think we all live a compromised lifestyle in some ways. Some of us giving to others and not expecting anything back, others being selfish and doing their own thing. We are all individual however and have the right to live our life the way that we want to.
My wife leaving led me to make major changes to my life that I otherwise wouldn’t have done if she was with me and the impact has been enormous. I can now look back and say that I am not happy with life is a thing of the past.
So here are some of my tips on turning your life around too
- Check out my transformation program for daily help in seeking your own happiness hopefully you will like it. Click here
- Look inside and try and determine why you are not happy. If it is everything in your life you will need to break this down a little bit so you can change one small part at a time
- Close your eyes and get some clarity in your thoughts about what would make you happy. If they are things at home then speak about them to your nearest and dearest and try to change them. Often we hold things in when all we need to do is speak to the person that is doing our head in and tell them why. If you hold onto it though you can’t expect them to have a crystal ball and change for you
- Make sure you give yourself plenty of time every single day for you to gather your thoughts and process them properly. Often we think things are rubbish because we process our thoughts when we are stressed or busy. Therefore everything seems like a nightmare
- Have a plan of what you would like your future to look like. Do you want a big house, a nice car, a beautiful family. Then work out how you are going to get them. Believe me the universe has a way of giving you what you want if you tell it exactly what it is you want in the first place.
- If you are not happy in your job then try and make it better somehow. I did a video on this you can find here
- Try and do some fun things with friends and family. It is so easy to just go to work / school or whatever then come in and switch the television on. There is a big World out there full of happiness and fun you just have to go out there and involve yourself in it
- Despite what anyone says you were meant to be great. You were meant to have a great life and enjoy it. It may not seem like that sometimes but by making some changes to your beliefs and being a little selfish and concentrating on you. You can find things that will make you happy
- Stop making excuses about changing your life in order to be happy. So many times we say I want to do this but it will have to wait until I get more money. I would love to do this but I can’t I won’t be any good at it.
- Learn to say yes to things that matter more and no to things that do not make you happy. Saying no is a really hard thing to do sometimes but very necessary if it doesn’t make you smile
- The best things in life are free and never forget that. Laughter with friends and family, hugs, sharing love, dreams and plans. A hug costs nothing and you can find anyone to hug if you need one
- dream and dream big, all of us start with nothing in life, most of us are educated in the same way and the only difference between successful people or not is their ability to see the wood through the trees and go and get what they want
- Know that things will change and you will be happy. You will find your happy place. Never compromise if something is just okay then it doesn’t hold a place in your life. Everything should want to make you get up out of bed in the morning ready for a great adventure
- The only adventures you will have in life are the one’s that you have the guts to go and get. Don’t hold yourself back through fear. Get out there and do as many things as you can
So if you are not happy with life it is time to change it. If you haven’t signed up for my transformation program yet give it a whirl. I am with you everyday to help you make small changes like I made mine.
Sometimes all we need is a little encouragement and the knowing that everything will work out and I am there everyday in a short video to help you.
Wishing you all the very best in your future Scott